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In recent years, the divorce rate has
tended to increase, leading to many 

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consequences not only for adults but
also deeply impacting children. 

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When a marriage breaks down, the change
is not only the relationship between 

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husband and wife but also the entire
family structure, living environment and 

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the most important development of children. 

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According to psychologists, divorce can
become a major mental event 

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for children and teenagers. 

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Ly hôn is not just ly hôn, 

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not only a change in family structure
but also a major psychological 

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upheaval for children 

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children experience feelings like this
insecurity, this anxiety, this sadness 

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or self-blame because 

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thinks that they are the cause of their
parents' separation, so in young 

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children this can manifest 

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by withdrawing and having trouble
sleeping or being afraid of being 

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abandoned by teenagers, you can become 

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resistance loss of faith in love or
difficulty in building relationships later 

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However, the level of impact depends on
how parents handle conflicts and how 

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they accompany them. 

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you are in this transitional phase 

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From this reality, psychologists
recommend that parents pay special 

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attention to their children's mental
health when deciding to divorce. 

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The issue of divorce is one
of the social issues. 

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The divorce or any stressful issues
or conflicts 

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then of course if it can be avoided,
then avoid it to the maximum. 

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However, if there are such problems, how
will I guard against those situations. 

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For example, recently people
have seen cases, 

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there are high risks
of mental problems arising 

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then we should get examined or we
should have a management. 

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And this is also a very good shift from
a very passive healing mindset. 

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When we have problems,
we go for treatment. 

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then switch to one which is the hospital room. 

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Meaning we keep those situations safe so
that problems don't happen. 

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For example, taking you for periodic
check-ups every 1 month, 2 months, 3 

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months, 6 months, for example. 

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Divorce is sometimes a necessary choice
to end an unhappy marriage. 

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However, how adults behave during and
after this process will greatly 

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determine children's ability to
adapt and develop psychologically. 

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When listened to, understood and
accompanied in the right way, children 

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can still grow up mentally healthy even
if the family is no longer as complete as before.