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Currently, the divorce rate in
society tends to increase. 

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The breakdown of marriage not only
affects adult relationships but also 

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has a direct impact. 

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to the psychological life of children,
especially children and adolescents. 

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Bui Hoai Nam, Hanoi, said that his
parents divorced more than a year ago. 

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Since then, Nam has often felt sad and
gradually lost faith in love 

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as well as family happiness. 

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At one point, Nam fell into a state of
pessimism, put himself together and 

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had negative thoughts about himself. 

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My parents divorced about a year ago. 

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About this divorce, it has made me feel
very empty, 

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felt no longer loved as before. 

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Well, there were times when I was
in my room 

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and also feels almost like wanting to be
paralyzed from this life. 

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So I also need to find a place for my
psychological treatment. 

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because I was also
quite heavily affected. 

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According to psychologists, when parents
divorce, children and adolescents may 

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face many emotional
and psychological fluctuations. 

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The specialty is what people
call childhood experiences 

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It's not comfortable or the
childhood experience is unfavorable 

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And these unfavorable childhood experiences 

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It's considered a psychological death. 

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And it's this psychological death 

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Then it leads to a real death 

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In that neurodevelopment 

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And it causes defects 

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In the nervous systems 

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The injuries that maybe we 

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Will not be seen with the naked eye 

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Or the injuries that we may not
be able to measure 

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However, it has inflammatory factors 

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People see it very clearly 

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So it comes to the increase in
some of the inflammatory processes 

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For example, TNF-Alpha or Interleukin 

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And it's that inflammatory process 

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So it leads to that she is
likely to have problems 

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In the matter of handling emotions behind here 

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Doctors recommend that parents pay
special attention to signs of 

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psychological abnormalities in their
children after family events occur. 

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One of the symptoms that we are
quite easy to detect 

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That's a symptom of sleep 

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Sleep is like a thermometer
of pure mental health 

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And if children have sleep problems 

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For example, not sleeping well or
often staying up late 

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Or is there some problem? 

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It will also predict that you are likely
to encounter problems 

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Or one of the other symptoms 

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For example, emotions change significantly. 

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For example, you used to be
a very sharing person 

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So now she shares less, she talks less 

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And she shrinks. 

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Or for example, increasing the
use of stimulants 

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Or for example, behaviors that are
inherently more risky 

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For example, running away from home or dropping out of school 

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Or for example, catching
mother friends, for example 

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Well, it's also forecasts that 

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Well, there are some
psychological or spiritual problems. 

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Even if parents no longer live together,
maintaining care and positive 

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communication with children is still very important. 

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This helps children feel that they are
still loved and have a spiritual support.