WEBVTT 00:00:03.473 --> 00:00:06.668 In modern society, more and more young people are brave in expressing their 00:00:06.668 --> 00:00:08.633 gender trend as a way to assert themselves. 00:00:09.033 --> 00:00:11.153 However, the journey to real life is not easy. 00:00:11.533 --> 00:00:15.012 Psychologists say that lack of understanding from the family can leave 00:00:15.012 --> 00:00:16.593 deep damage to the children. 00:00:16.973 --> 00:00:20.707 When rejected, LGBT young people often fall into a state of loneliness, 00:00:20.707 --> 00:00:22.573 inferiority, and difficulty in leaving society. 00:00:23.099 --> 00:00:29.072 In today's society, there are still many people who are discriminated against, 00:00:29.072 --> 00:00:34.548 they consider people in the LGBT community to be deviant, even 00:00:34.548 --> 00:00:36.539 consideration as a disease. 00:00:36.939 --> 00:00:40.299 Therefore, it should be considered something embarrassing and 00:00:40.299 --> 00:00:41.559 should be excluded. 00:00:41.559 --> 00:00:47.596 Therefore, faced with such pressures, they do everything they can to adjust, 00:00:47.596 --> 00:00:53.130 they force their children to change their lifestyle, dress, and sexual 00:00:53.130 --> 00:00:54.639 orientation, and relationships. 00:00:55.219 --> 00:00:59.292 The consequences that are left behind make those people feel that at first 00:00:59.292 --> 00:01:02.426 they are skeptical about their self-worth, people are isolated, they 00:01:02.426 --> 00:01:04.619 lose everything and start to feel inadequate. 00:01:04.619 --> 00:01:07.685 Their personal values are not recognized by the community and are 00:01:07.685 --> 00:01:09.079 not recognized by their families. 00:01:09.519 --> 00:01:11.479 They will lose faith in themselves. 00:01:11.559 --> 00:01:16.010 Their value lost faith in people as well as they would distance themselves 00:01:16.010 --> 00:01:17.379 from their loved ones. 00:01:18.213 --> 00:01:22.213 On the other hand, many parents, although very loving their children, are 00:01:22.213 --> 00:01:24.213 confused about how to behave appropriately. 00:01:25.199 --> 00:01:27.599 Usually, at that time, parents often show that silence. 00:01:28.259 --> 00:01:29.759 But I will understand it like this. 00:01:30.039 --> 00:01:34.219 Even if I can show any kind of silence, I still need to tell my children. 00:01:34.939 --> 00:01:36.759 However, let me know your attitude. 00:01:36.979 --> 00:01:38.119 tell me the truth. 00:01:38.279 --> 00:01:41.559 That is, my parents are also very worried, and are also very lying. 00:01:42.019 --> 00:01:43.679 I don't have to act very much. 00:01:44.179 --> 00:01:49.239 But you should give your parents some time to learn with you. 00:01:49.239 --> 00:01:51.639 Let's learn about this problem. 00:01:52.459 --> 00:01:54.799 And remember that you always love you. 00:01:55.199 --> 00:01:56.699 And will always accompany you. 00:01:56.959 --> 00:02:03.239 The second thing is to show your child a thing called words of respect and love. 00:02:04.231 --> 00:02:07.240 Psychologists say that the most important thing is that parents need to 00:02:07.240 --> 00:02:11.002 give their children a sense of security so that the home truly becomes a support 00:02:11.002 --> 00:02:14.011 where each child can return and live in accordance with the government. 00:02:14.035 --> 00:02:21.108 The first thing for parents is that they can accompany their children to create a 00:02:21.108 --> 00:02:28.180 safe space, making them feel like home is a place to return to, parents are 00:02:28.180 --> 00:02:34.309 friends, people that they can share, people that they can talk about the 00:02:34.309 --> 00:02:36.195 difficulties they are facing. 00:02:36.195 --> 00:02:43.327 And then I will equip you with knowledge and skills to help you cope with the 00:02:43.327 --> 00:02:45.555 difficulties and pressures you face. 00:02:46.115 --> 00:02:52.515 Maybe I would tell my child that if when he felt too stressed but his parents 00:02:52.515 --> 00:02:56.515 still couldn't support him, I could find supporters like psychologists. 00:02:57.303 --> 00:03:00.641 More than ever, family companionship is the spiritual vaccine that helps young 00:03:00.641 --> 00:03:03.423 LGBT people stay strong in the face of the storm. 00:03:03.743 --> 00:03:07.004 When parents extend their arms, turning the roof into a safe place for their 00:03:07.004 --> 00:03:10.499 children to return to, that is also the time when each young person has more 00:03:10.499 --> 00:03:12.363 confidence to live truly, confidently contributing to society.