WEBVTT 00:00:12.485 --> 00:00:15.085 The 9th hour program would like to greet you. 00:00:18.593 --> 00:00:22.953 Ladies and gentlemen, what would our lives be like without love? 00:00:23.513 --> 00:00:28.351 Sometimes I often wonder, in each person's life, what is the most 00:00:28.351 --> 00:00:31.173 important thing if not life and love? 00:00:32.073 --> 00:00:36.133 Thanks to love, we have more energy to live and contribute. 00:00:36.913 --> 00:00:41.223 Love is always expressed in many forms such as love for the couple, love for 00:00:41.223 --> 00:00:43.233 oneself, love for family, love for work. 00:00:43.913 --> 00:00:47.113 And when in love, people also have countless ways to express their feelings. 00:00:47.113 --> 00:00:51.733 Some people are always ready to express, but many people choose 00:00:51.733 --> 00:00:52.993 action over words. 00:00:53.553 --> 00:00:56.793 There are even relationships where no one speaks a word to anyone. 00:00:57.473 --> 00:01:01.413 But that love scene was a heart-stopping love story. 00:01:03.025 --> 00:01:06.065 The story of the female audience sent to our editors today 00:01:06.065 --> 00:01:08.945 Choosing to share with you is such a story 00:01:08.945 --> 00:01:11.025 They have met in the past 00:01:11.025 --> 00:01:13.065 There were emotions in friendship 00:01:13.065 --> 00:01:15.665 Then lost connection for more than a decade 00:01:15.665 --> 00:01:18.825 Creating a rotation to bring them together 00:01:18.825 --> 00:01:22.225 When they are in the mature version and also have many bad habits 00:01:22.225 --> 00:01:24.285 Where will this story go? 00:01:25.085 --> 00:01:27.205 We invite you and your friends to listen to the story 00:01:27.205 --> 00:01:29.505 Tinh Cam right after 00:01:38.817 --> 00:01:42.590 I didn't think I would see him again, the guy from the same class 00:01:42.590 --> 00:01:43.937 as me in the past. 00:01:44.997 --> 00:01:47.537 In the blink of an eye, 12 years have passed. 00:01:48.597 --> 00:01:52.177 The unexpected fate suddenly brought back memories of each other. 00:01:53.097 --> 00:01:59.008 At this time, I am 40, you are 35, no one is young anymore, but it is not yet 00:01:59.008 --> 00:02:01.497 my age and it is all too late. 00:02:02.597 --> 00:02:08.117 Time goes back 12 years ago, when we were students at a university. 00:02:09.037 --> 00:02:13.057 Both of them had studied at other schools, then attended this school 00:02:13.057 --> 00:02:14.397 and the same class. 00:02:15.397 --> 00:02:18.777 In two years of studying together, we have many beautiful memories together. 00:02:19.797 --> 00:02:22.937 Because I was 5 years older than him, he called me "sister". 00:02:23.977 --> 00:02:28.345 Not only in my eyes, but in the eyes of many female students at that time, he 00:02:28.345 --> 00:02:30.657 stood out from the boys in the same class. 00:02:31.157 --> 00:02:35.297 He is as beautiful as a character in a painting, shining like a rainbow. 00:02:36.217 --> 00:02:38.657 Without opening up, there are countless female students. 00:02:38.817 --> 00:02:40.217 The female student asked to die. 00:02:42.453 --> 00:02:47.353 It was surprising to meet you again, the sister I thought of after the events of life, 00:02:48.013 --> 00:02:52.003 she has hugged her children and returned to her hometown or went to a far away 00:02:52.003 --> 00:02:55.993 place to remarry and seek new happiness like many women who divorce when they are young. 00:02:57.573 --> 00:03:01.173 When I met her again, all the information about her shocked me. 00:03:01.733 --> 00:03:06.182 I could not understand what power or miracle could make her overcome the 00:03:06.182 --> 00:03:09.604 difficulties and failures of her first life to be able 00:03:09.604 --> 00:03:10.973 to be miraculously reborn. 00:03:12.453 --> 00:03:15.613 More surprisingly, she was my boss at the time. 00:03:17.013 --> 00:03:21.113 Not only was I surprised but she also clearly showed her happy attitude when meeting me again. 00:03:22.053 --> 00:03:29.727 A girl 12 years ago with bright eyes still today, still full of vitality and 00:03:29.727 --> 00:03:31.773 exuding a strange attraction. 00:03:34.040 --> 00:03:38.540 He is still that beautiful, that delicate and gentle. 00:03:39.520 --> 00:03:42.840 The only difference is that he is married and has children. 00:03:44.120 --> 00:03:47.1000 Along with time, he quit smoking and his face became more Chucky. 00:03:49.180 --> 00:03:51.800 I am now divorced and raising a child alone. 00:03:52.900 --> 00:03:56.260 He said he learned about the incident through a classmate. 00:03:56.680 --> 00:04:00.340 He said he was surprised when he found out I was married to that person. 00:04:01.180 --> 00:04:03.300 A guy you don't seem to match me at all. 00:04:04.040 --> 00:04:06.980 So when he learned that I was divorced, he didn't take any surprises. 00:04:07.760 --> 00:04:12.545 Just because he thinks I'm small, his body like mine in this 00:04:12.545 --> 00:04:14.140 city may not last. 00:04:15.080 --> 00:04:16.780 At that time, he was studying abroad. 00:04:17.580 --> 00:04:21.980 He met his wife there, the two fell in love and then returned to Vietnam to get married. 00:04:22.760 --> 00:04:27.360 This is how my journey with you in 12 years of losing connection has been. 00:04:28.428 --> 00:04:32.348 I have been studying abroad since my second year, and have almost lost connection with old friends. 00:04:33.508 --> 00:04:37.288 The surprise meeting with her and the two worked together at the same agency, 00:04:37.828 --> 00:04:40.528 made me and her share more with each other in life. 00:04:42.288 --> 00:04:46.928 We still work in the present and recall the carefree past at that time. 00:04:48.328 --> 00:04:52.568 I, since meeting again, have gone from one surprise to another. 00:04:53.148 --> 00:04:56.288 I don't know how she can settle down in many areas, 00:04:56.288 --> 00:05:00.328 many areas of work that can still take care of children every day, 00:05:00.748 --> 00:05:03.888 alone, still full of positive energy and humor. 00:05:05.508 --> 00:05:08.228 What you say and how you listen to me, 00:05:08.768 --> 00:05:13.985 and even the lunches together made my painful heart suddenly seem 00:05:13.985 --> 00:05:15.408 to be healed. 00:05:18.007 --> 00:05:21.687 Through colleagues, I learned that his marriage was on the decline. 00:05:22.487 --> 00:05:27.735 The couple almost lived apart and together they suffered a huge debt due 00:05:27.735 --> 00:05:28.947 to failed investment. 00:05:29.847 --> 00:05:34.167 His wife works far away and he takes care of his children every day. 00:05:35.227 --> 00:05:39.267 Every time, I see him smoking and look away and be silent. 00:05:40.047 --> 00:05:44.832 The silence of the present is much heavier than the carefree silence 00:05:44.832 --> 00:05:46.427 of 12 years ago. 00:05:46.427 --> 00:05:50.287 And before that, I saw him on the balcony of the class many times. 00:05:51.267 --> 00:05:55.458 The two girls were stung up by guns, taking photos of him from a distance to 00:05:55.458 --> 00:05:59.387 post in a hanging group to see who would be able to corner him later. 00:06:00.287 --> 00:06:03.227 He stood there like a statue of David Tac Nguyen. 00:06:04.007 --> 00:06:07.227 The only task is to remain silent and radiate the glory. 00:06:08.347 --> 00:06:12.187 I also knew at that time, you knew you had everything. 00:06:12.547 --> 00:06:14.927 Good age, outstanding appearance. 00:06:14.927 --> 00:06:17.967 And a sensitive heart understands itself. 00:06:18.787 --> 00:06:22.667 For someone like that, it is not easy for someone to step in at will. 00:06:25.220 --> 00:06:30.213 I was always curious about her like I thought of her 12 years ago, 00:06:30.213 --> 00:06:31.640 when we first met. 00:06:32.920 --> 00:06:38.702 She is small, one head lower than me, white skin, a bright smile, a wide 00:06:38.702 --> 00:06:41.400 square waist and especially has bright eyes. 00:06:42.100 --> 00:06:46.520 Those eyes, looking at me for the first time, made me feel exposed 00:06:46.520 --> 00:06:47.880 and no longer fragile. 00:06:49.500 --> 00:06:53.600 Those scary eyes, perhaps she had seen through all the things she was thinking. 00:06:53.600 --> 00:06:58.140 That was the running thought in my mind when I saw her eyes. 00:06:59.220 --> 00:07:02.757 I also thought that her name was T.H. Quang because her eyes can see 00:07:02.757 --> 00:07:04.020 through the hearts of others. 00:07:05.260 --> 00:07:08.115 Not only is it a noble attitude but her way of behaving towards everyone is also 00:07:08.115 --> 00:07:09.900 very much in line with the values of the government. 00:07:10.800 --> 00:07:15.440 She is good at everything she does, good at studying, good at playing and understanding life. 00:07:16.320 --> 00:07:20.507 She has relationships with all kinds of people, strangely, no matter who she 00:07:20.507 --> 00:07:22.440 plays with, she is still herself. 00:07:23.600 --> 00:07:32.040 Before, in my memory, I was that way, now I am much more admired. 00:07:34.998 --> 00:07:40.545 Because we work together and I take charge of his work, we meet and talk to 00:07:40.545 --> 00:07:42.278 each other almost every day. 00:07:43.098 --> 00:07:47.263 The stories are sometimes serious, sometimes not endless, sometimes the 00:07:47.263 --> 00:07:50.178 same, sometimes the same, sometimes the same. 00:07:50.898 --> 00:07:54.298 We don't end the story after talking, we only see the end of the day. 00:07:54.758 --> 00:07:58.905 I realized that since meeting him again, my life has become more colorful, 00:07:58.905 --> 00:08:01.138 motivated to go to work every day. 00:08:01.138 --> 00:08:07.405 And from then on, I thought about him more, every time I thought about being 00:08:07.405 --> 00:08:08.658 unconscious, I smiled. 00:08:10.739 --> 00:08:15.479 Before, I saw myself as a robot, with only responsibility and responsibility on my shoulders. 00:08:16.559 --> 00:08:20.979 Of course, I do it with love for my children and my relatives. 00:08:21.999 --> 00:08:26.059 But when I put my work and obligations down, I always find myself lonely. 00:08:27.299 --> 00:08:31.439 My marriage and my wife are much more peaceful, instead of fixing things together, 00:08:31.679 --> 00:08:35.771 The two ignored each other and became more and more distant, 00:08:35.771 --> 00:08:37.259 both geographically and spiritually. 00:08:37.259 --> 00:08:43.006 Once I told my wife that I always trust her and hope she has a 00:08:43.006 --> 00:08:44.539 solution to change jobs 00:08:44.539 --> 00:08:46.419 so that the family can live together. 00:08:47.119 --> 00:08:51.020 The children need both their father and mother to take care of them, and I also 00:08:51.020 --> 00:08:52.239 need her by her side. 00:08:54.019 --> 00:08:57.559 Anyway, I don't want to let my husband and I be apart because of money, 00:08:58.139 --> 00:09:00.399 because she and I both earn money. 00:09:01.159 --> 00:09:05.159 Although not too much, you can still live well and have fun. 00:09:05.159 --> 00:09:09.619 Just don't be too ambitious about a life of extreme luxury. 00:09:09.619 --> 00:09:13.539 But my wife thought that I was not smart enough to advance. 00:09:13.539 --> 00:09:17.859 This has always been a problem in our relationship. 00:09:20.045 --> 00:09:22.665 We share more with each other in life. 00:09:23.645 --> 00:09:26.785 Like many years ago, I still lost my vigilance before you, 00:09:27.345 --> 00:09:31.205 still not taking any precautions, even though for a while the connection was lost. 00:09:32.245 --> 00:09:35.925 Remember when we were in school, you and I had some bad times, 00:09:36.445 --> 00:09:38.225 times when they punch each other but feel vomited, 00:09:38.905 --> 00:09:42.125 every time he wandered around the streets, sitting around all kinds of things in life. 00:09:43.025 --> 00:09:44.845 I always remembered your story. 00:09:45.525 --> 00:09:49.305 You talk about your first love, how truly you have loved 00:09:49.305 --> 00:09:51.005 and how he was betrayed. 00:09:51.885 --> 00:09:53.625 That pain kept haunting in my heart, 00:09:54.085 --> 00:09:57.065 made him no longer feel like leaving a girl 00:09:57.065 --> 00:09:58.925 into my heart again. 00:10:00.025 --> 00:10:03.325 I still remember you saying a very light word to me at that time, 00:10:04.145 --> 00:10:08.105 when he looked straight into my eyes, when we were sitting next to each other. 00:10:11.159 --> 00:10:15.399 I like you, but I don't want to step in because I'm afraid of you. 00:10:16.719 --> 00:10:21.139 That is the word I said 12 years ago when I sat next to her on a winter night. 00:10:22.459 --> 00:10:26.733 She looked at me confused, perhaps because I was a total loss, not because 00:10:26.733 --> 00:10:28.259 she was scared or surprised. 00:10:31.139 --> 00:10:33.779 I still remember her asking me, why are I afraid? 00:10:35.039 --> 00:10:36.059 I don't look at her anymore. 00:10:36.899 --> 00:10:41.059 I was afraid that her eyes could not hide my weaknesses in my heart. 00:10:41.559 --> 00:10:45.329 The conflicts of tearing teeth of having to step forward with all the 00:10:45.329 --> 00:10:46.779 relationships waiting for me ahead. 00:10:47.379 --> 00:10:51.139 Or will forever be immersed in the fear of betrayal and being recognized. 00:10:52.739 --> 00:10:56.779 I still think I can be the one to preside over the game. 00:10:57.639 --> 00:10:59.679 I don't like to feel exposed. 00:11:00.679 --> 00:11:05.039 Maybe that is why when I was a young man, I liked her. 00:11:05.819 --> 00:11:08.299 But she definitely did not step up to her. 00:11:10.542 --> 00:11:15.299 Once again, he said he admired the journey I have gone through after 00:11:15.299 --> 00:11:16.762 12 years of disconnection. 00:11:17.742 --> 00:11:21.682 I also realized that he was truly more mature, and there was a lot of history. 00:11:22.542 --> 00:11:25.162 It's true, time is always a good teacher. 00:11:25.802 --> 00:11:31.586 We are together for more than 8 hours a day, talking from work to personal 00:11:31.586 --> 00:11:35.442 matter, from the past to the present and the future. 00:11:35.442 --> 00:11:40.162 But you asked me why I haven't found the right person for so many years. 00:11:40.982 --> 00:11:44.822 I also shared that I have had a few relationships since the divorce. 00:11:45.562 --> 00:11:50.682 At first, we had every wish, but with the time, along with the expressing, 00:11:50.682 --> 00:11:53.242 they and I no longer felt together. 00:11:54.042 --> 00:11:56.282 Maybe I'm suitable for loneliness. 00:11:57.462 --> 00:11:59.542 He looked at me, his eyes wide. 00:12:00.502 --> 00:12:02.222 Who is suitable for loneliness? 00:12:03.142 --> 00:12:05.422 I'm a bit old, who are you dating? 00:12:05.442 --> 00:12:10.242 Let your heart be bustling, don't let yourself shine like me, then 00:12:10.242 --> 00:12:11.442 you can't escape. 00:12:12.642 --> 00:12:14.902 I just laughed, let alone. 00:12:18.025 --> 00:12:19.805 There are two things in this world that cannot be hidden. 00:12:20.725 --> 00:12:22.545 One is the sadness of the children. 00:12:23.365 --> 00:12:25.305 Two are the eyes of those in love. 00:12:26.625 --> 00:12:28.825 She said that and I thought so too. 00:12:30.005 --> 00:12:33.909 Not only did I see that, but the wife who sold the juice at our restaurant 00:12:33.909 --> 00:12:36.105 often saw clearly that she and I had problems. 00:12:37.325 --> 00:12:40.605 Once when she was on a business trip, I went to the shop alone. 00:12:41.425 --> 00:12:44.125 The wife selling the water asked, Aren't your lover accompanying you? 00:12:45.805 --> 00:12:50.745 I forced my mouth to refute, no, my sister. 00:12:52.085 --> 00:12:56.225 The old lady laughed and said, well, my husband is like a lover. 00:12:57.005 --> 00:12:59.325 Looking at each other like that, who would think you were superior to me? 00:13:00.845 --> 00:13:05.074 She just said that she was holding a fan, and my cheeks suddenly became hot 00:13:05.074 --> 00:13:06.765 like a wild child being discovered. 00:13:08.165 --> 00:13:10.785 It turned out that we were behaving together abnormally. 00:13:11.905 --> 00:13:14.625 I remember once when my hair just flew in the wind. 00:13:14.625 --> 00:13:18.965 While she was holding a glass of water, I unconsciously put my hair on her hand. 00:13:20.085 --> 00:13:23.405 I also remember one time I was so tired that I looked up at the sun. 00:13:24.265 --> 00:13:26.925 She picked up a few royal poinciana leaves falling on my head. 00:13:30.554 --> 00:13:33.476 I also remember one time when I had a whole neck pain because my face was bent 00:13:33.476 --> 00:13:35.194 and I was playing at the computer for too long. 00:13:36.094 --> 00:13:39.496 I felt entire body was sick, unconsciously he took a very natural 00:13:39.496 --> 00:13:40.914 hand to squeeze my shoulder. 00:13:41.774 --> 00:13:45.675 Now and then, I still call him "anh tai", just like I used to call him 00:13:45.675 --> 00:13:46.894 "anh tai" in the past. 00:13:47.214 --> 00:13:51.684 And I also occasionally wear a short dress to work, even though I always have 00:13:51.684 --> 00:13:53.174 a protective short pants inside. 00:13:53.774 --> 00:13:58.254 But he said he shouldn't wear them to work, to avoid letting men imagine. 00:13:58.254 --> 00:14:03.574 I teased again, any man can imagine, only you can fuel your imagination. 00:14:04.214 --> 00:14:07.234 Now he was silent and looked at me with confused eyes. 00:14:08.194 --> 00:14:11.994 I also thought, maybe that dress was a bit short. 00:14:13.114 --> 00:14:18.273 The next day, I wore long pants to work, he looked at me and said, you are a good 00:14:18.273 --> 00:14:20.174 person, you know how to accept it. 00:14:21.454 --> 00:14:24.274 I still often shock him to win or lose. 00:14:24.594 --> 00:14:27.474 I wear it because I like it, not for you. 00:14:30.443 --> 00:14:33.883 Suddenly stopping, I felt very uncomfortable when she called me Nghe An. 00:14:34.703 --> 00:14:37.203 No matter how many years, she still often shouts that way. 00:14:38.203 --> 00:14:42.703 Telling her funny and silly stories made me laugh and forget all the worries. 00:14:43.703 --> 00:14:46.583 I often say that you are truly a world-famous Seherazade. 00:14:47.403 --> 00:14:49.463 Talking to each other for many days without stopping the story. 00:14:50.323 --> 00:14:52.563 And nothing happened. 00:14:53.723 --> 00:14:58.423 However, there were days when she was busy or had something wrong. 00:14:58.423 --> 00:15:01.483 If you are quiet, I feel low. 00:15:02.543 --> 00:15:06.663 I don't know how long she has entered my mind and stayed there. 00:15:08.103 --> 00:15:11.689 I suddenly felt that I was sometimes lost, losing focus in every 00:15:11.689 --> 00:15:13.183 time I thought about her. 00:15:14.323 --> 00:15:18.819 It felt a bit uncomfortable to see male colleagues discussing her even though it 00:15:18.819 --> 00:15:20.103 was a positive statement. 00:15:20.903 --> 00:15:23.383 I felt missed going to work without seeing her. 00:15:24.483 --> 00:15:28.203 And once in my dream I dreamed of her. 00:15:30.805 --> 00:15:34.605 Although he was a bit complacent and shouted a little bit to him, 00:15:35.345 --> 00:15:39.845 but I know that since meeting again, my husband has been nurturing a bond of love. 00:15:40.685 --> 00:15:45.585 Yes, I can hide everything, but I can't hide myself. 00:15:46.465 --> 00:15:49.225 No matter how strong I am, I am still a woman. 00:15:49.705 --> 00:15:54.345 As for women, few of them are eager to love and be loved. 00:15:55.385 --> 00:15:58.585 I have lived in a female mask for too long, 00:15:58.585 --> 00:16:00.505 makes everyone admire him. 00:16:01.305 --> 00:16:03.245 Sometimes I get bored. 00:16:04.125 --> 00:16:09.325 I long to be weak, to be cared for, to be cared for like a small cat. 00:16:10.325 --> 00:16:12.605 I don't need to be a good woman at all. 00:16:13.285 --> 00:16:16.985 I just need to be a woman in the love of a man. 00:16:18.245 --> 00:16:22.925 something small like that, I have not been able to find it for many years. 00:16:24.105 --> 00:16:26.979 The happiness after 12 years suddenly made me feel like I 00:16:26.979 --> 00:16:28.285 was playing with a spark, 00:16:28.585 --> 00:16:33.805 suddenly caught a link even though that link could be more risky than luck. 00:16:36.938 --> 00:16:39.358 The words are identical at the same time. 00:16:40.198 --> 00:16:42.218 Only we know the stories of the past. 00:16:42.958 --> 00:16:44.998 The wordless eyes suddenly confront each other. 00:16:45.958 --> 00:16:49.318 The accidental collisions made both of them confused. 00:16:50.458 --> 00:16:52.278 I know and you know. 00:16:53.198 --> 00:16:58.078 We are not as carefree as the way we are expressing or are avoiding. 00:16:59.138 --> 00:17:02.318 Anyway, I am a married person. 00:17:03.278 --> 00:17:06.078 She is both single and a superior. 00:17:06.078 --> 00:17:09.538 But everything in life has tightened for both of them. 00:17:12.798 --> 00:17:17.778 The way we can do things together is to give each other warmth in silence. 00:17:19.078 --> 00:17:21.958 And for me, it's not just about having a family. 00:17:22.758 --> 00:17:26.038 But if it were for her, it would be too far away. 00:17:27.498 --> 00:17:28.798 I felt un entitled. 00:17:31.360 --> 00:17:37.710 I fully understand what you keep in your heart, as I have always understood you, 00:17:37.710 --> 00:17:38.980 others and myself. 00:17:39.600 --> 00:17:45.040 I am also very clearly aware of my own moral standards and self-awareness. 00:17:46.160 --> 00:17:49.480 Not only do I know how to love or how to be moved. 00:17:50.360 --> 00:17:55.996 However, with you, I have given my mind to floating on you twice, I have lost to 00:17:55.996 --> 00:17:58.980 the times that only you and I have shared. 00:17:58.980 --> 00:18:03.936 In the past years, we have not matured, have the right to do 00:18:03.936 --> 00:18:05.460 wrong and blame everyone. 00:18:06.180 --> 00:18:11.320 Thinking about it now with all the masks on, I have no other choice. 00:18:12.460 --> 00:18:17.960 But emotions are not something that can be stopped, let alone run out. 00:18:18.780 --> 00:18:21.560 It still quietly seeped into my heart every day. 00:18:22.860 --> 00:18:27.439 Once I saw your wife come to invite you to lunch, she was as beautiful 00:18:27.439 --> 00:18:28.660 as a flower petal. 00:18:29.600 --> 00:18:34.220 I felt like I was kicked into a very distant past, where you were no longer there. 00:18:35.320 --> 00:18:39.300 Only I stood there alone and cried. 00:18:42.404 --> 00:18:46.144 Ladies, the saying of the guy 12 years ago 00:18:46.144 --> 00:18:51.244 I like you, but I don't want to step up because I'm afraid of you 00:18:51.244 --> 00:18:57.624 But today they work together and their personal circumstances are all broken 00:18:57.624 --> 00:19:01.644 What will happen to them when fate puts them close 00:19:01.644 --> 00:19:06.760 We hope you will follow the next part of the story broadcast this Sunday on 00:19:06.760 --> 00:19:08.124 Lao Dong TV channel