WEBVTT 00:00:12.535 --> 00:00:16.875 Ladies and gentlemen, a successful man with a warm family 00:00:17.918 --> 00:00:23.046 A talented woman, along with a warm family, suddenly heard the sound of 00:00:23.046 --> 00:00:25.018 affection beating them, they fainted. 00:00:25.818 --> 00:00:30.098 Only when the family's wife appeared did they regain consciousness? 00:00:30.698 --> 00:00:34.358 We hope you will follow the next part of our story right here. 00:00:43.602 --> 00:00:48.437 I have lived as a person who has awakened, is truly loved, or I have 00:00:48.437 --> 00:00:51.982 lived as a lost mind, according to my relatives and family. 00:00:53.602 --> 00:00:56.482 Yes, everyone knew about my affair. 00:00:57.722 --> 00:01:02.752 My wife, instead of shouting and insulting like most wives, stood up and 00:01:02.752 --> 00:01:07.782 left and said I was confused, and would talk when she was conscious. 00:01:09.662 --> 00:01:12.922 Her calm attitude made me feel tired and guilty. 00:01:13.962 --> 00:01:18.582 Instead, she cursed, she could even beat me, I was also resentful. 00:01:19.662 --> 00:01:22.122 I can't live up to the opinions of people around me anymore. 00:01:23.442 --> 00:01:28.722 For many years, I have thought I am full, my happiness makes many people jealous. 00:01:29.702 --> 00:01:34.806 Although my heart is always empty, everyone around me is like that, even 00:01:34.806 --> 00:01:37.162 not having the things I have. 00:01:39.262 --> 00:01:42.822 I know, I know I will be cursed, befrugated. 00:01:45.722 --> 00:01:50.919 But above all, I feel like I have truly found where I belong, the person I want 00:01:50.919 --> 00:01:52.142 to protect and protect. 00:01:53.102 --> 00:01:56.082 The person I just needed to see my heart was stirred up. 00:01:57.702 --> 00:02:02.342 About everything about America, I want to share, accompany, and carry with you. 00:02:03.222 --> 00:02:06.582 I am willing to pay all the price to be with you. 00:02:09.007 --> 00:02:10.587 My husband and I fought. 00:02:11.667 --> 00:02:14.783 One person is hospitalized, the other has been taken to the ward because of 00:02:14.783 --> 00:02:16.787 the noisy reckless incident in the entire boarding house. 00:02:18.167 --> 00:02:20.447 I am the source of all these unjust acts. 00:02:21.647 --> 00:02:25.307 My husband does not scold me, he only talks for me. 00:02:26.287 --> 00:02:30.658 But I understand that you and I both know that this relationship is not just 00:02:30.658 --> 00:02:32.407 for the benefit of our children. 00:02:33.307 --> 00:02:37.407 But in fact, my child wanted to see his parents in such a cold environment. 00:02:37.407 --> 00:02:42.287 Once, my child said, looking at me like a single mother. 00:02:43.107 --> 00:02:46.647 She even said, if I divorced, it would be normal. 00:02:47.407 --> 00:02:49.747 Because of my husband's appearance, there are also benefits and disadvantages. 00:02:50.867 --> 00:02:53.127 Saying this is not an excuse. 00:02:54.067 --> 00:02:56.567 Trung and I are two criminals in the eyes of many people. 00:02:57.207 --> 00:02:59.227 Both are paying the price for their decisions. 00:03:00.507 --> 00:03:01.587 Trung lost more than me. 00:03:02.447 --> 00:03:05.967 Trung has fame, career, family, everything. 00:03:05.967 --> 00:03:09.447 But me, I only have children and loneliness. 00:03:10.487 --> 00:03:12.827 I also never want to be the one to destroy his family. 00:03:13.647 --> 00:03:18.671 But Trung said, if it were not me, he would probably leave 00:03:18.671 --> 00:03:19.927 in another situation. 00:03:21.227 --> 00:03:24.327 I can't justify my relationship with him. 00:03:24.967 --> 00:03:27.087 Even though that love is for nothing. 00:03:28.047 --> 00:03:32.567 Maybe the two really resisted for too long, wearing masks for too long. 00:03:32.567 --> 00:03:37.840 Or both of them have not been able to choose the best things, so they should 00:03:37.840 --> 00:03:40.147 be willing to do the same thing. 00:03:42.511 --> 00:03:47.231 This was the most terrible time of my life, both physically and mentally. 00:03:48.631 --> 00:03:50.171 I lost everything. 00:03:53.271 --> 00:03:56.857 Once when my friend fell in love with a woman who was more thanhampered, I 00:03:56.857 --> 00:03:58.291 told him that he was crazy. 00:03:59.211 --> 00:04:00.371 He just laughed and was silent. 00:04:01.651 --> 00:04:05.751 Now I understand how much love can make a person lose mind. 00:04:07.011 --> 00:04:09.091 I leave everything for my wife and children. 00:04:09.691 --> 00:04:11.651 I just pray that she will live for herself. 00:04:11.651 --> 00:04:13.691 Don't suffer because you hate me. 00:04:14.591 --> 00:04:17.091 My daughter's future will be responsible. 00:04:19.450 --> 00:04:20.990 Pre-scribed petition on the table 00:04:21.490 --> 00:04:23.030 My wife and children move to Da Nang 00:04:25.090 --> 00:04:26.370 She didn't want to meet me 00:04:27.130 --> 00:04:29.170 Everything has really failed 00:04:30.710 --> 00:04:33.790 I only have America and a future with only love 00:04:34.050 --> 00:04:37.690 Built from the broken and miserable lives of those involved 00:04:40.139 --> 00:04:41.159 Are we guilty? 00:04:42.439 --> 00:04:44.239 I don't want to be judged anymore 00:04:44.739 --> 00:04:46.019 I just want to live for myself 00:04:47.819 --> 00:04:49.619 I paid all the price to be free 00:04:50.639 --> 00:04:52.419 And I know you are the same 00:04:53.699 --> 00:04:55.759 But you don't deserve to be cursed 00:04:56.779 --> 00:04:57.799 You're not wrong with anyone 00:04:59.859 --> 00:05:01.559 So I love you more 00:05:03.950 --> 00:05:06.870 Dung, his wife came to see me. 00:05:08.110 --> 00:05:09.610 She is civilized and understanding. 00:05:10.510 --> 00:05:14.501 But I understand that she loves her husband, a love that is very 00:05:14.501 --> 00:05:15.730 difficult to let go. 00:05:17.210 --> 00:05:22.147 I, no matter how much I justify, cannot say that I am not guilty in causing 00:05:22.147 --> 00:05:23.690 their family to break up. 00:05:24.810 --> 00:05:29.073 Dung said that she and I both have children, and we didn't want the 00:05:29.073 --> 00:05:31.510 children to grow up in a broken family. 00:05:31.510 --> 00:05:37.990 I can't argue with anything, because I know I'm wrong. 00:05:39.170 --> 00:05:44.039 If she was insulting and cursing, then maybe I still had some excuse that she 00:05:44.039 --> 00:05:47.610 didn't say anything so her husband left her, it was right. 00:05:49.130 --> 00:05:54.266 Dung's kindness towards a third person like me made me even more 00:05:54.266 --> 00:05:55.550 humiliated and ashamed. 00:05:56.830 --> 00:05:58.370 There is no excuse. 00:05:59.710 --> 00:06:01.490 I texted him to say goodbye. 00:06:01.510 --> 00:06:06.090 I texted him to say goodbye and return him everything he had worked hard to build. 00:06:07.210 --> 00:06:11.495 I clearly saw that I could not be patient enough to take that woman's 00:06:11.495 --> 00:06:14.250 things, even though I still loved him very much. 00:06:15.830 --> 00:06:18.310 I ran away, but I couldn't. 00:06:19.350 --> 00:06:22.899 The scratching and painful feeling kept me unconscious, causing me to 00:06:22.899 --> 00:06:24.190 lose appetite and sleep. 00:06:25.290 --> 00:06:31.010 After more than a month of contact, he found me and said he was free. 00:06:32.210 --> 00:06:34.130 He was just a little weak and skinny. 00:06:35.330 --> 00:06:39.270 As for me, I started a new relationship with my husband. 00:06:41.791 --> 00:06:44.611 I want to talk to him directly, My husband. 00:06:45.731 --> 00:06:48.171 In response, he acts like a tycoon. 00:06:48.991 --> 00:06:52.491 So I went to the hospital, the injury was enough to rob him of the road. 00:06:53.851 --> 00:06:57.607 Although working in the industry, this is not known for its right or wrong, but 00:06:57.607 --> 00:06:59.611 the crime of intentional injury is already obvious. 00:07:01.619 --> 00:07:06.709 My said, please help with the complaint, he is the father of my child anyways, if 00:07:06.709 --> 00:07:10.527 he is kicked out of the industry and goes to prison, my 00:07:10.527 --> 00:07:11.799 child will also suffer. 00:07:13.539 --> 00:07:16.996 Actually, I just wanted to put pressure on him to quickly sign the divorce 00:07:16.996 --> 00:07:19.219 papers and give him his freedom to the US. 00:07:21.079 --> 00:07:25.009 For two months I was hospitalized, only going to the US alone, all the teachers 00:07:25.009 --> 00:07:26.319 turned their backs on me. 00:07:26.319 --> 00:07:32.987 It's okay, I deserved to be like that, I threw away the precious things I worked 00:07:32.987 --> 00:07:37.989 hard to build, in exchange for something that people say is cheap, 00:07:37.989 --> 00:07:39.239 silly, and mediocre. 00:07:41.259 --> 00:07:44.299 For me, it is now that I truly live for myself. 00:07:45.599 --> 00:07:50.797 Just being in the US, I find every moment worthwhile, even when we discuss 00:07:50.797 --> 00:07:54.139 everything in the world, even when we are silent. 00:07:56.319 --> 00:08:00.013 I live every moment, every moment happily, even though I know, the 00:08:00.013 --> 00:08:03.399 happiness I have, I have to pay a very high price. 00:08:05.119 --> 00:08:10.166 It seemed like life had turned a new page, and unexpectedly, things became 00:08:10.166 --> 00:08:11.719 increasingly difficult to control. 00:08:14.232 --> 00:08:17.712 My husband signed the divorce papers and claimed custody of the child. 00:08:18.632 --> 00:08:20.352 He said I didn't deserve to be a mother. 00:08:21.452 --> 00:08:24.332 The recent scandal, even my agency knows about. 00:08:25.092 --> 00:08:29.592 I also have no face to go to work and act like I am innocent. 00:08:30.632 --> 00:08:32.592 Using the excuse that I do not have a stable job. 00:08:32.832 --> 00:08:36.060 He was given custody of the child along with pressure from both sides of his 00:08:36.060 --> 00:08:39.072 paternal and maternal family for me to have an affair and leave my husband. 00:08:40.192 --> 00:08:41.672 Everyone is on his side. 00:08:41.672 --> 00:08:46.718 Because I was so tired and had to continue a new journey with work and 00:08:46.718 --> 00:08:49.072 taking care of Trung, I gave up. 00:08:49.992 --> 00:08:51.272 Trung has also withdrawn the lawsuit. 00:08:52.332 --> 00:08:56.355 Trung and I dared to breathe a little lightly after a period of 00:08:56.355 --> 00:08:57.592 stretching like a strings. 00:08:58.312 --> 00:09:03.772 I joked with him, if we die in the future, we must go to hell. 00:09:05.212 --> 00:09:09.412 He just looked at me and said, I only live once, you. 00:09:09.412 --> 00:09:15.532 If there is a fault, it is just because we have met too late, too late, but it 00:09:15.532 --> 00:09:17.912 is not impossible to do it again. 00:09:19.912 --> 00:09:23.542 I watched him silently, both of them were old enough to understand what they 00:09:23.542 --> 00:09:26.912 had just gone through, and had to pay the price for this love. 00:09:27.912 --> 00:09:34.128 For the future, we can't worry, as long as we have each other, slowly, 00:09:34.128 --> 00:09:36.792 everything will take time to heal. 00:09:39.940 --> 00:09:43.507 The day we were officially free, I felt like the whole world was starting 00:09:43.507 --> 00:09:44.780 to join hands with us. 00:09:45.860 --> 00:09:47.940 There was space for me and you to breathe. 00:09:49.180 --> 00:09:53.588 I bought a piece of land in the highlands and built a homestay for us to 00:09:53.588 --> 00:09:55.240 both live and do business in, 00:09:55.820 --> 00:09:58.860 is also to stay away from the urban area, creating a new life. 00:10:00.600 --> 00:10:05.197 That day, seeing you tell me a story full of flowers, I took a photo and 00:10:05.197 --> 00:10:06.920 wanted to write something for you, 00:10:07.560 --> 00:10:09.600 the person I only found for half my life. 00:10:09.940 --> 00:10:14.660 tried to write her a love letter, but she saw her fall. 00:10:15.560 --> 00:10:18.380 I panicked and ran over, blood from her nose was flowing. 00:10:19.320 --> 00:10:22.500 I could only hug him and take him straight to the hospital. 00:10:24.060 --> 00:10:26.800 After more than an hour in the emergency room, my heart was on fire. 00:10:27.600 --> 00:10:31.340 Things around have never become so chaotic and disoriented. 00:10:32.720 --> 00:10:35.760 I have witnessed many times that relatives have to be hospitalized for emergency care, 00:10:36.320 --> 00:10:38.820 also felt the pain of losing a loved one. 00:10:38.820 --> 00:10:41.920 But this time it felt really bad. 00:10:43.160 --> 00:10:46.900 I dare not imagine anything, just hope the door of that room opens, 00:10:47.440 --> 00:10:49.420 so I can see you in peace. 00:10:52.840 --> 00:10:56.960 The soil under my feet seemed to collapse, my mind was no longer there. 00:10:57.940 --> 00:11:02.700 The doctor said I had lung cancer, and I had metastasized to stage 1. 00:11:03.820 --> 00:11:08.580 It's impossible, I'm healthy and don't feel like I have any health problems. 00:11:09.420 --> 00:11:13.220 Only occasionally feel full and exhausted due to labor. 00:11:14.140 --> 00:11:15.880 Why can I have cancer? 00:11:16.680 --> 00:11:22.060 Why don't I feel any warning signs from my body and then get into this misery? 00:11:23.600 --> 00:11:27.420 Hundreds of questions hanging in my head, will I die? 00:11:28.200 --> 00:11:29.740 Is it at this time? 00:11:32.740 --> 00:11:34.240 Because I have become a journalist? 00:11:35.200 --> 00:11:37.260 Or was it because my fate had decided for me? 00:11:44.545 --> 00:11:48.925 He was soaked next to him, the space seemed unstable. 00:11:49.985 --> 00:11:56.025 Everything was frozen and cold, just like death had come close to me. 00:11:57.525 --> 00:12:02.641 Never in my life, I thought I would stop right at the moment I had 00:12:02.641 --> 00:12:04.005 just started everything again. 00:12:05.025 --> 00:12:09.525 This is really unacceptable, but there is nothing to do. 00:12:09.525 --> 00:12:14.945 For the first time in my life, I felt so helpless. 00:12:17.333 --> 00:12:20.959 Is this the reward that I deserve to receive when causing a series 00:12:20.959 --> 00:12:22.353 of injuries to my relatives? 00:12:23.313 --> 00:12:25.593 Is this also the fate that I have to endure? 00:12:26.933 --> 00:12:30.560 For the first time in my life, I dared to trade everything to get the person I 00:12:30.560 --> 00:12:32.053 wanted to be with all my life. 00:12:32.593 --> 00:12:34.453 But the moment came to an illusion. 00:12:36.113 --> 00:12:38.693 No, it was a real nightmare. 00:12:39.753 --> 00:12:42.413 I became calm and encouraged him to stay mentally strong. 00:12:43.153 --> 00:12:44.993 I definitely have to go to another hospital for a follow-up check-up. 00:12:45.693 --> 00:12:46.753 Who knows, I can't predict. 00:12:48.253 --> 00:12:50.993 Many fragile hopes are coming. 00:12:51.813 --> 00:12:53.933 But in the end, the result was one. 00:12:55.433 --> 00:12:58.973 I learned to hide my heart as if it was suffocated every time I saw him sleep. 00:12:59.973 --> 00:13:01.573 Our fate is so short and sad. 00:13:02.113 --> 00:13:06.593 Is it God who creates fate, or is it us who have to pay for our decisions? 00:13:08.053 --> 00:13:09.733 I dare not say anything more. 00:13:11.253 --> 00:13:15.089 At this time, I have to increase my mental strength by a few hundred 00:13:15.089 --> 00:13:16.733 percentage points to be my support. 00:13:17.333 --> 00:13:21.053 We decided not to tell anyone about her illness. 00:13:21.053 --> 00:13:24.053 Because talking cannot save anything. 00:13:24.053 --> 00:13:27.253 I began to see time as more precious than gold. 00:13:27.253 --> 00:13:32.053 Every second, every minute, I also want to be with you, doing 00:13:32.053 --> 00:13:33.253 everything you desire. 00:13:33.253 --> 00:13:36.753 Because fate will take me away at any time. 00:13:36.753 --> 00:13:41.560 The loneliness and a fragile sense of happiness beyond the smoke made me and 00:13:41.560 --> 00:13:44.993 you feel more in need of each other than ever. 00:13:47.193 --> 00:13:50.013 I practice for myself in a state of being ready to accept everything 00:13:50.513 --> 00:13:52.833 And learn to cherish every moment that passes 00:13:53.333 --> 00:13:54.353 Despite the adversity 00:13:54.613 --> 00:13:55.633 Or a newspaper 00:13:55.893 --> 00:13:57.173 well I still feel 00:13:57.693 --> 00:13:59.473 My heart seems to be reborn 00:13:59.993 --> 00:14:01.333 Since I arrived 00:14:04.068 --> 00:14:07.688 Yes, a dramatic story with an emotional ending. 00:14:08.568 --> 00:14:12.468 However, facing the news of life and death, I still feel sad 00:14:12.468 --> 00:14:13.768 about their love story. 00:14:14.548 --> 00:14:18.788 This is really difficult for me to determine between right and wrong. 00:14:19.568 --> 00:14:23.748 Obviously, the characters in our story seem to have everything, 00:14:24.328 --> 00:14:27.588 But in reality, they have nothing but loneliness. 00:14:28.228 --> 00:14:31.568 Because I feel the loneliness that is increasingly permeating my soul, 00:14:31.568 --> 00:14:36.076 So they turn around to find answers, answers for their 00:14:36.076 --> 00:14:37.428 own endless resistance. 00:14:38.448 --> 00:14:39.528 What about Mr. Phu Thang? 00:14:40.148 --> 00:14:43.658 What do you think about the whole story that the Nam audience has 00:14:43.658 --> 00:14:45.008 just shared as a man? 00:14:45.361 --> 00:14:50.081 As a man, I see him as an extremely brave man. 00:14:50.921 --> 00:14:52.721 Me too, like many other men, 00:14:53.121 --> 00:14:56.521 will not have enough courage to make such important decisions in their life. 00:14:57.201 --> 00:15:00.221 Especially when he was the one who seemed to have everything in hand. 00:15:01.261 --> 00:15:04.161 There is a saying, men only expand, not build new. 00:15:05.041 --> 00:15:08.461 The decision in this case was truly a very brain-wrenching decision. 00:15:09.461 --> 00:15:12.553 Through the story, he also shared about whether it was a report 00:15:12.553 --> 00:15:13.841 that he had to accept 00:15:13.841 --> 00:15:16.861 when he hurt many people he loved. 00:15:18.201 --> 00:15:20.061 I don't have the right to judge this story. 00:15:20.801 --> 00:15:24.821 I remember YOLOism, which translates to "You only live once". 00:15:25.581 --> 00:15:29.481 Maybe in life, people only need to be themselves once, 00:15:30.061 --> 00:15:33.401 dare to do, dare to accept, that is enough. 00:15:35.935 --> 00:15:39.395 Now, the 9th hour program would like to end here. 00:15:40.035 --> 00:15:43.135 See you again on the show.