WEBVTT 00:00:12.451 --> 00:00:17.551 Hello ladies and gentlemen. We will meet again in the 9th hour program. 00:00:21.530 --> 00:00:25.510 Ladies and gentlemen, with the increasing divorce rate today, it shows 00:00:25.510 --> 00:00:29.490 us that the connection of family relationships is becoming increasingly distant. 00:00:29.870 --> 00:00:34.325 The role and responsibility of each wife and husband, has each of 00:00:34.325 --> 00:00:35.810 us fulfilled our duty? 00:00:36.683 --> 00:00:40.966 Yes, ladies and gentlemen, I think that in a divorce, everyone 00:00:40.966 --> 00:00:42.523 has their own mistakes. 00:00:43.503 --> 00:00:46.303 Maybe it's just simply dissatisfaction in each other's eyes, 00:00:46.783 --> 00:00:51.613 not necessarily because of bigger and more serious things like adultery or 00:00:51.613 --> 00:00:53.223 mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts. 00:00:54.807 --> 00:00:59.659 And now, please invite you and your friends to follow the story of a young 00:00:59.659 --> 00:01:02.247 family with a lot of discord and tension. 00:01:02.887 --> 00:01:06.319 They separated because they could not understand each other, were not tolerant 00:01:06.319 --> 00:01:08.607 enough, and no one would yield to anyone. 00:01:18.297 --> 00:01:22.577 From the day I gave birth to my second child, I became a different woman. 00:01:23.517 --> 00:01:26.077 Always in a state of irritability and sloppiness. 00:01:26.817 --> 00:01:29.137 I didn't even dare to look in the mirror anymore. 00:01:29.797 --> 00:01:34.230 I am afraid if I see myself in an ugly state, my hair hasn't been done, my 00:01:34.230 --> 00:01:36.837 clothes are not ready yet, then I will be flat. 00:01:37.777 --> 00:01:43.957 Where is the image of a young, neat girl, always neat, pants and shirts. 00:01:43.957 --> 00:01:47.477 I'm not pretty, but I'm quite pleasing. 00:01:48.197 --> 00:01:52.397 Although I have a husband, there is no shortage of eyes watching me with longing. 00:01:53.397 --> 00:01:58.277 Yet, in just one year, everything really changed. 00:02:01.480 --> 00:02:05.680 Perhaps my wife is somewhat suffering from postpartum depression. 00:02:06.820 --> 00:02:11.605 It seems that just a small matter, and the child, is enough to make her annoyed 00:02:11.605 --> 00:02:13.100 and say really harsh words. 00:02:14.280 --> 00:02:18.342 I wanted to share everything with her, but every time I intended to open my 00:02:18.342 --> 00:02:21.320 mouth, I had to hear grumbling words that made me tired. 00:02:23.080 --> 00:02:26.600 Over the days, I've had enough pressure and stress in the office. 00:02:27.440 --> 00:02:30.080 I just want to find a peaceful space every time I get home. 00:02:30.080 --> 00:02:35.560 But perhaps that has become too much of a luxury for me. 00:02:37.947 --> 00:02:41.727 Previously, my husband and I were both elite students. 00:02:42.407 --> 00:02:46.847 Therefore, when we graduated, we could easily find the job we wanted. 00:02:47.727 --> 00:02:49.627 Life is full of pink in our eyes. 00:02:50.447 --> 00:02:53.547 With a fairly stable salary, his house also has a small apartment available, 00:02:53.547 --> 00:02:56.647 enough for my husband and I to live in if we get married. 00:02:57.287 --> 00:03:01.047 The conditions are too good, plus the urge of both sides. 00:03:01.047 --> 00:03:07.421 Two years after graduating, he and I got married in the gathering of everyone 00:03:07.421 --> 00:03:08.787 and two families. 00:03:11.174 --> 00:03:14.254 In the early days we lived happily and happily. 00:03:15.014 --> 00:03:17.314 Always sticky like sparrows 00:03:18.334 --> 00:03:21.414 I thought that dream life would last forever. 00:03:21.674 --> 00:03:23.714 And happiness will only double 00:03:25.514 --> 00:03:26.534 But I was wrong 00:03:27.554 --> 00:03:31.394 Family life only really started since we had our first child 00:03:32.414 --> 00:03:34.474 Everything starts to turn and change 00:03:35.234 --> 00:03:36.514 I don't recognize you anymore 00:03:36.774 --> 00:03:39.854 A woman who is always gentle and smiling 00:03:43.473 --> 00:03:48.236 The appearance he often sees most in me is a not-so-cared-for appearance, the 00:03:48.236 --> 00:03:52.633 house is not tidy, and meals no longer have many nutritious dishes. 00:03:53.213 --> 00:03:56.293 Instead, there are simple and quick meals. 00:03:57.073 --> 00:04:01.793 I no longer have time to cook all day with elaborate and complex dishes. 00:04:02.613 --> 00:04:06.993 I choose to cook simple dishes that can be left for a long time, such 00:04:06.993 --> 00:04:08.453 as braised dishes and din. 00:04:08.453 --> 00:04:13.473 Oh, even I don't recognize myself anymore, it's you. 00:04:14.633 --> 00:04:20.174 But the newborn baby cried all the time, plus the fact that I lost milk, so I 00:04:20.174 --> 00:04:23.433 started mixing milk, making me unable to smile brightly anymore. 00:04:26.420 --> 00:04:30.800 That's right, she always welcomes me with a sullen, hard-to-stay face. 00:04:32.180 --> 00:04:35.400 Many times, I also feel bored every time I step home. 00:04:36.680 --> 00:04:40.500 If only she knew how to arrange everything scientifically, it wouldn't be so bad. 00:04:41.540 --> 00:04:45.060 How many other women, they also get married and have children. 00:04:45.820 --> 00:04:48.860 And their lives are not as disruptive as our lives. 00:04:53.386 --> 00:04:57.684 Saying that, I wish he knew how to share housework with me, it 00:04:57.684 --> 00:04:59.006 wouldn't be that bad. 00:05:00.166 --> 00:05:04.938 He just needs to go home a little earlier, replace me in the kitchen to 00:05:04.938 --> 00:05:09.073 cook, then perhaps everything will also be neater and not become as messy 00:05:09.073 --> 00:05:10.346 as it is now. 00:05:11.426 --> 00:05:15.786 If you want a comfortable life like before, you also have to share housework with me. 00:05:16.286 --> 00:05:21.546 But you leave everything to me to arrange, isn't that right? 00:05:24.622 --> 00:05:27.382 But things have not stopped at that level. 00:05:28.442 --> 00:05:32.642 When her first child was not yet one year old, she continued to be pregnant with her second child. 00:05:33.962 --> 00:05:37.882 From that time, everything stressful becomes the peak of the problem. 00:05:38.882 --> 00:05:43.822 Having given birth to my second child for a few days, I hugged my child alone 00:05:43.822 --> 00:05:46.602 at home and I felt everything was really comfortable. 00:05:47.642 --> 00:05:50.722 But things went back to normal when I was discharged from the hospital and returned home. 00:05:51.782 --> 00:05:54.602 I started to be irritable every time I encountered a messy house scene. 00:05:55.282 --> 00:05:58.022 Children cry, children demand to eat, children demand to sleep. 00:05:59.222 --> 00:06:03.062 We did not receive help from our grandparents, because my parents are 00:06:03.062 --> 00:06:05.622 old, and his parents live in the countryside. 00:06:06.482 --> 00:06:10.416 They come here and are not suitable for our lives, after a few days 00:06:10.416 --> 00:06:11.822 they return to the countryside. 00:06:13.642 --> 00:06:17.642 Just like that, our family only had husband and wife taking turns managing everything. 00:06:20.866 --> 00:06:25.386 Every night it was almost 12 o'clock, I had time for myself. 00:06:26.766 --> 00:06:30.891 Looking at the two children sleeping soundly, the husband carelessly also lay 00:06:30.891 --> 00:06:32.266 rolling on the bed. 00:06:33.246 --> 00:06:35.726 Only I was left with the battlefield in front of my eyes. 00:06:36.406 --> 00:06:42.346 Toys, scarves, towels, clothes scattered all over the floor. 00:06:43.366 --> 00:06:46.566 I felt like crying but still had to restrain myself. 00:06:46.566 --> 00:06:52.735 Perhaps if I just cry to satisfy the hardship, including the psychological 00:06:52.735 --> 00:06:55.306 hardship of a newborn woman, 00:06:56.026 --> 00:06:59.206 then I had somewhat reduced the negative emotions in my heart. 00:07:00.246 --> 00:07:01.826 But I kept it in my heart. 00:07:02.586 --> 00:07:07.666 That's why those negative emotions keep growing day by day, month by month. 00:07:11.204 --> 00:07:15.980 In her eyes, I was always a carefree husband, unable to help my wife 00:07:15.980 --> 00:07:17.344 and children with anything. 00:07:18.124 --> 00:07:22.721 But I still have to work to earn money, I don't have too much time to just focus 00:07:22.721 --> 00:07:24.764 on staying at home and cleaning the house. 00:07:25.804 --> 00:07:29.449 In addition to my main job, I also have to meet friends to see if 00:07:29.449 --> 00:07:30.664 there are any decent investments. 00:07:31.164 --> 00:07:35.282 But in this day and age, just waiting to mobilize office salaries, will they be 00:07:35.282 --> 00:07:37.204 able to raise their children or not? 00:07:40.077 --> 00:07:44.229 You are always good at arguing for yourself, children are common children, 00:07:44.229 --> 00:07:46.997 you can't just put everything on my head. 00:07:47.917 --> 00:07:53.268 Saying like you, later I will also go to work and I will also be busy like you, 00:07:53.268 --> 00:07:56.537 not paying attention to housework like you, what will you think? 00:07:57.977 --> 00:08:03.537 In this era, everything must be fair, otherwise dissolve it. 00:08:07.533 --> 00:08:12.413 Ladies and gentlemen, in our story, the wife after giving birth suffers 00:08:12.413 --> 00:08:13.633 from postpartum depression, 00:08:14.233 --> 00:08:18.261 busy with her child being born, bald, mischievous, promiscuous, causing 00:08:18.261 --> 00:08:19.873 trouble with her husband. 00:08:20.833 --> 00:08:24.553 Then the second child was born again, the fatigue increased so much that she 00:08:24.553 --> 00:08:26.413 couldn't stand it and filed for divorce. 00:08:28.013 --> 00:08:29.573 How will the story unfold? 00:08:30.193 --> 00:08:34.333 Please watch the next part of the story broadcast on Lac Dong 00:08:34.333 --> 00:08:35.713 TV channel this Sunday.