WEBVTT 00:00:12.485 --> 00:00:15.465 Dear friends, you have returned at the 9th hour. 00:00:19.336 --> 00:00:23.984 Ladies and gentlemen, a week has passed, the busy pace of life makes us rush to 00:00:23.984 --> 00:00:25.436 chase after its rotating pants. 00:00:26.156 --> 00:00:30.256 Our editors are very touched that you are still taking your time 00:00:30.256 --> 00:00:34.750 to send thanks, shares, and encouragement to the program after many 00:00:34.750 --> 00:00:35.976 years on air. 00:00:36.496 --> 00:00:40.371 This encouragement is a great motivation for the editors to continue sharing the 00:00:40.371 --> 00:00:42.756 feelings of the audience sent to the program. 00:00:43.416 --> 00:00:46.236 Thereby, we have more valuable lessons from life. 00:00:46.236 --> 00:00:50.456 And today, what topic do we bring together, Mr. Phu Thang? 00:00:50.977 --> 00:00:56.177 Yes, Ms. Minh Hoa, love is always an indispensable topic in life. 00:00:57.018 --> 00:01:01.166 Love and be loved, to go with the person you choose and choose yourself until the 00:01:01.166 --> 00:01:03.758 end of the journey is something that everyone wished for. 00:01:04.738 --> 00:01:08.052 However, in their journey, not everyone is lucky enough to 00:01:08.052 --> 00:01:09.378 choose the right companion. 00:01:10.378 --> 00:01:13.849 What happens when the person you have chosen is not the one you can go 00:01:13.849 --> 00:01:15.238 to the end of the road. 00:01:15.978 --> 00:01:20.458 What is the boundary of choice? Will the reason or feeling win in the 00:01:20.458 --> 00:01:21.738 journey to find happiness? 00:01:21.738 --> 00:01:26.348 We would like to invite you and your friends to come to the story of 00:01:26.348 --> 00:01:27.578 Van Co Tinh below. 00:01:37.028 --> 00:01:39.008 Phu and I have been married for 3 years. 00:01:39.748 --> 00:01:43.748 We are called a perfect couple by the general standards of society. 00:01:44.468 --> 00:01:46.448 I am beautiful young and have my own career. 00:01:47.248 --> 00:01:49.708 Phu was a very early successful young entrepreneur. 00:01:50.428 --> 00:01:54.748 We are all international students in the US, appearing in both sides of the post-graduate exam. 00:01:55.308 --> 00:01:58.776 After getting married, I returned to Vietnam to make it easier to take care 00:01:58.776 --> 00:02:01.748 of my children and let them live in a pure Vietnamese environment. 00:02:02.468 --> 00:02:05.588 My husband has a company in the US, so he still flies back and forth. 00:02:05.588 --> 00:02:12.628 A ten-point life is like the way people still see our small family as passing. 00:02:13.588 --> 00:02:17.081 I am far from my husband but in return, I still enjoy a lot 00:02:17.081 --> 00:02:18.328 of love from both families. 00:02:19.368 --> 00:02:24.448 Although the outside is round, it is hidden deep within our relationship, 00:02:25.108 --> 00:02:29.368 I always have the feeling that my husband has a problem. 00:02:31.906 --> 00:02:35.646 He is not the person I love the most, but he is someone who gives me the 00:02:35.646 --> 00:02:36.966 feeling of wanting to get married. 00:02:38.146 --> 00:02:41.866 As I still believe, we are two complete pieces. 00:02:43.106 --> 00:02:47.081 I am only 26, but my thinking is somewhat established and more 00:02:47.081 --> 00:02:48.406 independent than my peers. 00:02:49.286 --> 00:02:53.426 This is the key to me feeling secure when I have you as a supporter. 00:02:55.166 --> 00:02:58.906 Before marrying him, I had a heart-stopping love affair. 00:02:58.906 --> 00:03:04.486 Ly was my first love, and I was also her first love. 00:03:05.626 --> 00:03:09.376 The two started their relationship when they were in grade 10, until I spent the 00:03:09.376 --> 00:03:11.126 entire scholarship to study in the US, 00:03:11.726 --> 00:03:14.126 and she chose to study abroad in Europe. 00:03:15.906 --> 00:03:18.446 Youth and career path are still a welcome addition. 00:03:19.326 --> 00:03:22.856 We chose to part ways in a civilized way, still occasionally texting each 00:03:22.856 --> 00:03:24.486 other to ask about the situation. 00:03:26.386 --> 00:03:28.886 The matter kept going on, until I started looking for her. 00:03:28.886 --> 00:03:32.866 I know that Ly has separated from her Vietnamese husband and is looking to leave France. 00:03:35.609 --> 00:03:40.594 Women's feelings are often wrong, but the busyness of taking care of children 00:03:40.594 --> 00:03:46.729 and running a spa makes me not have time to pay attention to my husband's schedule. 00:03:47.309 --> 00:03:52.984 He is a habit from away, he can come home a month or 2-3 months late to 00:03:52.984 --> 00:03:55.989 arrange to go home, for me it is normal. 00:03:55.989 --> 00:04:02.529 Occasionally, when I have free time, I find loneliness in my mind, so I just 00:04:02.529 --> 00:04:06.889 text or call him to get him to comfort me. 00:04:07.489 --> 00:04:11.335 Otherwise, I think modern women, independence and self-reliance are 00:04:11.335 --> 00:04:16.889 extremely important, so I rarely show that I need him by my side. 00:04:17.429 --> 00:04:23.294 That could also be my mistake in letting him be too free in his own space, while 00:04:23.294 --> 00:04:25.709 he was a father and a husband. 00:04:25.989 --> 00:04:30.628 Having a few days off, my grandparents and the waitresses took my child back to 00:04:30.628 --> 00:04:35.575 my hometown, I planned to fly to visit him, but thinking he was busy, I decided 00:04:35.575 --> 00:04:38.049 to go out in the country with her. 00:04:39.229 --> 00:04:43.689 From this trip, my life has changed forever. 00:04:47.024 --> 00:04:50.104 The 2-hour phone call made me feel sorry for Ly. 00:04:51.304 --> 00:04:54.964 Anyway, there are too many good things in the past between us. 00:04:56.144 --> 00:05:00.032 I always thought that a smart person who knows things like Ly would choose the 00:05:00.032 --> 00:05:02.364 right man for herself and have a happy life. 00:05:03.624 --> 00:05:09.469 Unexpectedly, after only 2 years of marriage, the two separated and finally 00:05:09.469 --> 00:05:11.904 got divorced for unbelievable reasons. 00:05:11.904 --> 00:05:16.504 Fortunately, Ly and her husband still have no children together. 00:05:17.604 --> 00:05:20.184 If I had to do it again, it would not be too much of a burden. 00:05:21.424 --> 00:05:22.864 Ly is at the intersection. 00:05:23.724 --> 00:05:28.035 She does not want to stay in France, but also does not want to return to Vietnam 00:05:28.035 --> 00:05:30.064 to avoid worrying questions about her personal life. 00:05:31.544 --> 00:05:34.184 Recently, my company is lacking a marketing position. 00:05:35.104 --> 00:05:39.164 I shared that it could help her go to the US to change her living environment. 00:05:41.904 --> 00:05:46.124 we have truly met again in Silicon Valley after 9 years of not seeing each other. 00:05:48.263 --> 00:05:51.503 I booked two business tickets for my best friend and I to sit next to. 00:05:52.383 --> 00:05:55.695 For some reason, getting on the plane, she met her best friend who had been 00:05:55.695 --> 00:05:58.123 away for more than ten years, sitting in the lower seat. 00:05:58.803 --> 00:06:02.368 So she went down to hold her hand and look at her friend, hugged him tightly, 00:06:02.368 --> 00:06:05.263 and then something small and small with the man sitting next to her. 00:06:05.663 --> 00:06:11.046 Then she whispered into my hand about changing her seat and going down to 00:06:11.046 --> 00:06:12.583 cheer with her ex. 00:06:13.923 --> 00:06:17.403 So Khang entered my life like that. 00:06:18.263 --> 00:06:21.083 He asked for Vietnam time and re-locked his phone. 00:06:21.823 --> 00:06:25.423 I heard his uncking voice and guessed he was Vietnamese. 00:06:26.283 --> 00:06:29.967 Khang said he was born and raised in France, this time returning to 00:06:29.967 --> 00:06:31.383 Vietnam to visit his hometown. 00:06:32.023 --> 00:06:36.050 I am a person with good communication skills, so the flight of more than two 00:06:36.050 --> 00:06:39.003 hours to the island was just a blink of an eye. 00:06:40.023 --> 00:06:44.283 Coincidentally, we were both residing at an isolated resort here. 00:06:45.123 --> 00:06:47.603 My story with Khang is just getting started. 00:06:49.368 --> 00:06:51.648 The high tide brought many indescribable emotions. 00:06:52.668 --> 00:06:57.668 When we stopped, we were just young people entering the world with many options. 00:06:58.928 --> 00:07:03.484 Nearly 10 years have passed, we have met again and have many things in hand, but 00:07:03.484 --> 00:07:04.908 have also lost many things. 00:07:05.888 --> 00:07:10.840 The strange thing was that Ly and I felt that time still stopped at the time we 00:07:10.840 --> 00:07:12.588 had chosen to leave each other. 00:07:13.308 --> 00:07:16.428 For a long time, some got married, some got married. 00:07:16.428 --> 00:07:19.988 Both of them considered it a journey they should have. 00:07:21.068 --> 00:07:24.228 Depending on, it doesn't feel any pain or hurt. 00:07:25.168 --> 00:07:29.255 I also did not regret it because at that time, instead of choosing to love far 00:07:29.255 --> 00:07:30.788 away, I chose to break up. 00:07:32.188 --> 00:07:35.534 I only know that when they meet again, it will be like continuing the 00:07:35.534 --> 00:07:36.968 period of stopped since high school. 00:07:37.988 --> 00:07:42.988 Outside of work, we seem to relive our youth with endless endless stories. 00:07:44.168 --> 00:07:46.188 At that time, I forgot. 00:07:46.428 --> 00:07:48.328 That I have a wife and children. 00:07:50.911 --> 00:07:54.291 Her best friend was constantly attached to her ex-boyfriend, making me think I 00:07:54.291 --> 00:07:55.851 would be helpless on that trip. 00:07:56.951 --> 00:08:01.911 Unexpectedly, the chance meeting with Khang made my trip more interesting. 00:08:02.811 --> 00:08:06.051 Khang is 2 years older than me, and has only returned to Vietnam for more than ten years. 00:08:06.691 --> 00:08:09.499 He also works in the biochemical industry, a industry quite close to the 00:08:09.499 --> 00:08:11.011 beauty industry that I am working in. 00:08:11.331 --> 00:08:14.851 Therefore, the two have many topics to talk about. 00:08:14.851 --> 00:08:19.699 Through the conversation, I learned that Khang was divorced and was currently 00:08:19.699 --> 00:08:20.911 a playboy single. 00:08:21.831 --> 00:08:26.471 I also did not hide my condition, sharing with him about my initial situation. 00:08:27.271 --> 00:08:32.091 We visited destinations together and I became his tireless tour guide. 00:08:32.911 --> 00:08:37.149 On the contrary, he made me extremely surprised by my knowledge of history as 00:08:37.149 --> 00:08:39.571 well as the destination I took him to. 00:08:40.371 --> 00:08:41.751 He is better than the locals. 00:08:42.731 --> 00:08:44.751 We go from surprise to surprise. 00:08:44.851 --> 00:08:51.443 Just like those two days, a strange emotion naturally arose in my 00:08:51.443 --> 00:08:53.091 heart for him. 00:08:56.133 --> 00:08:59.586 The determination and closeness to Ly in the recent past has made me more 00:08:59.586 --> 00:09:01.313 negligent in taking care of my family. 00:09:02.053 --> 00:09:07.040 At least, because of Ly's presence, I left the regular flight to visit my 00:09:07.040 --> 00:09:09.533 family and take care of some work. 00:09:10.853 --> 00:09:12.773 Atheism and conflict began to arise. 00:09:13.813 --> 00:09:16.193 Strangely, my wife has not called me like usual. 00:09:16.873 --> 00:09:21.621 On one hand, I feel comfortable, on the other hand, I feel uneasy because I 00:09:21.621 --> 00:09:24.153 don't understand why my wife didn't text me. 00:09:24.153 --> 00:09:27.513 has not called since the day he reported to go on vacation. 00:09:28.733 --> 00:09:32.193 I texted, but I only replied that I was busy and would call back later. 00:09:33.593 --> 00:09:37.153 Finally, I decided to call to report that I would leave the flight schedule next month. 00:09:37.953 --> 00:09:39.993 She also pointed to Ok and turned off the phone. 00:09:41.533 --> 00:09:44.673 This was quite strange, not like her attitude every day. 00:09:45.693 --> 00:09:49.921 I asked about both families and found that everyone said my wife was fine, 00:09:49.921 --> 00:09:51.733 maybe she would be happy forever. 00:09:52.933 --> 00:09:54.133 So I also cleaned it. 00:09:54.153 --> 00:09:57.253 The affectionate desire to be on one side to spend more time on the other side. 00:09:57.973 --> 00:10:01.973 Although the two are still only at the stage of recalling their old love. 00:10:05.405 --> 00:10:09.265 Khang chose a restaurant in town, a very Vietnamese atmosphere. 00:10:10.165 --> 00:10:13.405 He wanted to spend time fully enjoying the feeling of his hometown. 00:10:14.125 --> 00:10:18.670 And it is especially this return trip that he was lucky enough to meet an 00:10:18.670 --> 00:10:20.185 interesting travel companion like me. 00:10:22.265 --> 00:10:27.345 Under the open lights on the beach, wine and a few salads, 00:10:28.045 --> 00:10:30.885 we danced to a melody together to the cheerful music. 00:10:30.885 --> 00:10:36.725 He held my hand more tightly and bowed down to look at me with a deep look. 00:10:37.705 --> 00:10:42.125 He said he could see me again when this trip was over. 00:10:43.085 --> 00:10:46.399 He does not have any schedule in Vietnam, he wants to 00:10:46.399 --> 00:10:47.605 connect with me more. 00:10:48.865 --> 00:10:52.245 Then it is unclear whether it is due to the gray eyes reaching deep into that abyss, 00:10:52.825 --> 00:10:56.445 or because of alcohol, or because I have been lonely for too long, 00:10:56.645 --> 00:11:00.445 that we have held hands and hoped for. 00:11:04.822 --> 00:11:07.942 Ly still maintains the weaknesses and weaknesses from her school days. 00:11:08.822 --> 00:11:12.862 Time and broken experiences made her more mature and mature. 00:11:14.002 --> 00:11:18.142 However, Ly was still charming in the eyes of men, not just me. 00:11:19.262 --> 00:11:23.502 At my company, at least two guys expressed interest in Ly. 00:11:24.322 --> 00:11:26.002 This made me a little uncomfortable. 00:11:27.082 --> 00:11:28.422 Maybe it's jealousy? 00:11:28.422 --> 00:11:33.679 No matter how much aspects of our relationship are, we have no right to 00:11:33.679 --> 00:11:35.182 own or impose anything. 00:11:36.162 --> 00:11:40.582 However, from deep within I know, since I knew she was divorced, 00:11:41.102 --> 00:11:44.442 from that moment on, I wanted to have Ly in my current life. 00:11:45.542 --> 00:11:48.962 Even though I know this, I am betraying my wife, at least in my mind. 00:11:49.802 --> 00:11:52.822 But I still cant resist the feeling of wanting to connect with Ly, 00:11:53.422 --> 00:11:56.862 wanted to share with her things I couldn't share with my wife. 00:11:58.402 --> 00:12:00.382 Want to tell her about her uncomfortable years, 00:12:00.962 --> 00:12:03.862 about what they should have had together. 00:12:04.922 --> 00:12:08.322 And it seems that it's not just me. 00:12:11.292 --> 00:12:17.272 This must be stopped, this is not right, it will destroy everything. 00:12:18.632 --> 00:12:22.232 We must stay away from being open, my reason says that. 00:12:24.212 --> 00:12:28.152 After that passionate night, I felt extremely guilty towards my husband. 00:12:28.992 --> 00:12:34.732 I betrayed my husband, no matter what I say, what should I do? 00:12:34.732 --> 00:12:41.281 Feeling regretful, I decided to end the vacation early, return to my room 00:12:41.281 --> 00:12:42.792 and change flights. 00:12:43.892 --> 00:12:47.252 Using the excuse that I was still sick, I told my best friend to fly home first. 00:12:48.392 --> 00:12:52.932 I ran away from the empty space, from the feelings that were arising fiercely in my heart. 00:12:54.112 --> 00:12:58.292 The regret is seeing a sense of regret, it makes me suffocate. 00:12:59.572 --> 00:13:02.812 I called my husband, wanted to say something, 00:13:03.412 --> 00:13:04.712 or something to say, 00:13:04.712 --> 00:13:05.992 wants to know if he's okay, 00:13:06.792 --> 00:13:09.952 or simply want to hear his voice. 00:13:11.052 --> 00:13:13.072 What to do, I don't know. 00:13:14.192 --> 00:13:16.832 I just know I'm in chaos and want to be forgiven. 00:13:17.712 --> 00:13:22.560 Although I understand it, sometimes at the end of my life, I don't dare to say 00:13:22.560 --> 00:13:23.772 that I betrayed him. 00:13:25.897 --> 00:13:27.537 My wife is rumored to be calling more often. 00:13:28.557 --> 00:13:29.697 She was never like that. 00:13:30.757 --> 00:13:33.117 She also expressed another affection for the message first. 00:13:34.357 --> 00:13:35.917 This change made me dizzy. 00:13:36.977 --> 00:13:38.957 Should she have known about me and Ly? 00:13:39.877 --> 00:13:41.177 Or what's wrong with her? 00:13:42.417 --> 00:13:47.677 To be honest, since getting married, the couple's love story has become less sweet. 00:13:48.357 --> 00:13:49.997 Instead, there are obligations and responsibilities. 00:13:50.957 --> 00:13:55.017 We are like two partners in the same house, both mature and understanding. 00:13:55.017 --> 00:13:56.837 Both independent and self-reliant. 00:13:57.757 --> 00:14:00.977 So both he and I respect each other's privacy. 00:14:02.937 --> 00:14:06.337 Since getting married, busy has carried us away. 00:14:07.137 --> 00:14:09.097 The two did not have time for each other. 00:14:10.117 --> 00:14:14.357 Therefore, the need to understand or suspect is unlikely to grow. 00:14:15.997 --> 00:14:19.497 He cares about my husband, but I find it strange. 00:14:20.637 --> 00:14:22.457 It's good that the ex is right next to him. 00:14:22.837 --> 00:14:24.957 I just texted him and made an appointment. 00:14:25.017 --> 00:14:27.017 This incident in Vietnam will make up for my wife. 00:14:28.877 --> 00:14:30.877 Actually, I have many options in my heart. 00:14:31.777 --> 00:14:34.577 And I'm choosing something to settle down for everyone. 00:14:35.457 --> 00:14:37.457 I want to be in this state. 00:14:37.977 --> 00:14:40.977 Having a wife, but also Chi Ky. 00:14:41.637 --> 00:14:45.737 And best of all, my wife should not know that Chi Ky does not ask for anything more. 00:14:45.737 --> 00:14:47.337 That is the best thing. 00:14:50.322 --> 00:14:55.802 Ladies and gentlemen, the couple in our story can be called a successful couple. 00:14:56.402 --> 00:15:01.342 However, due to not being close to each other, both husband and wife have a third person. 00:15:02.102 --> 00:15:03.962 How will they solve this problem? 00:15:04.662 --> 00:15:10.151 We hope you will follow the next part of our story to be broadcast next Sunday on 00:15:10.151 --> 00:15:11.442 Lao Dong TV channel.