WEBVTT 00:00:03.507 --> 00:00:08.429 The words, the way of reacting, even the eyes between parents become the first 00:00:08.429 --> 00:00:10.187 behavioral lesson that children receive. 00:00:10.767 --> 00:00:14.598 Children not only listen to what is taught but also learn by observing, then 00:00:14.598 --> 00:00:17.607 base on what they see in their own behavior and words. 00:00:18.007 --> 00:00:22.051 The reporter of the labor newspaper had an interview with experts from the NHC 00:00:22.051 --> 00:00:24.939 Vietnam Center for Psychology and Human Development on building positive 00:00:24.939 --> 00:00:27.827 behavior and emotions for children right in the family environment. 00:00:27.993 --> 00:00:30.393 For children, they are very sensitive 00:00:30.393 --> 00:00:33.913 Depending on the psychological characteristics of children's age 00:00:33.913 --> 00:00:37.593 And form children's perspectives on the world 00:00:37.593 --> 00:00:42.033 One of the characteristics of children is their ability to copy and catch catch catch 00:00:42.033 --> 00:00:45.933 For the story of when a child grew up 00:00:45.933 --> 00:00:50.673 Receive both attention and love 00:00:50.673 --> 00:00:53.653 A fair treatment between father and mother 00:00:53.653 --> 00:01:00.213 Well, there are actually two words that I find extremely important here 00:01:00.213 --> 00:01:01.873 That is safety 00:01:01.873 --> 00:01:06.833 The child grew up in a feeling of 00:01:06.833 --> 00:01:09.133 In an emotionally safe environment 00:01:09.133 --> 00:01:13.773 Those children are observed from a professional perspective 00:01:13.773 --> 00:01:16.333 And my years of practice 00:01:16.333 --> 00:01:20.073 well, I see that they are very confident 00:01:22.313 --> 00:01:26.753 To teach children to love, parents must become the best version of themselves. 00:01:27.781 --> 00:01:34.484 Education is not just about words, not just advice, not just a very important 00:01:34.484 --> 00:01:35.921 dogma or theory. 00:01:36.321 --> 00:01:41.635 In reality, it is the father and mother who practice, the one who 00:01:41.635 --> 00:01:42.861 always regulates themselves. 00:01:42.981 --> 00:01:45.561 well, the children will also look there to study. 00:01:47.221 --> 00:01:51.714 And behavioral culture will start from the self-awareness and change of each 00:01:51.714 --> 00:01:53.961 person as father, mother, and husband. 00:01:53.961 --> 00:01:59.052 And we will become the best version of ourselves before expecting 00:01:59.052 --> 00:02:00.441 that from others. 00:02:00.541 --> 00:02:03.361 I believe that the example of an adult is the foundation. 00:02:03.941 --> 00:02:06.301 Children do not learn by teaching but by observing. 00:02:06.641 --> 00:02:09.181 Parents learn to say thank you and apologize. 00:02:09.721 --> 00:02:14.004 Knowing how to listen without using violent words, children will naturally 00:02:14.004 --> 00:02:16.341 form a positive habit of communication. 00:02:16.341 --> 00:02:20.888 And from there, daily habits such as eating together, chatting with each 00:02:20.888 --> 00:02:23.541 other before going to bed or simply 00:02:23.541 --> 00:02:27.321 ask and care about your child's feelings every day. 00:02:27.741 --> 00:02:31.290 What you have today will be a nutritious, fertile land because 00:02:31.290 --> 00:02:32.581 there are many positives. 00:02:32.861 --> 00:02:38.336 And parents are an environment to help their children have an opportunity to 00:02:38.336 --> 00:02:40.021 develop future personality forms. 00:02:41.187 --> 00:02:45.207 The family is the first home of children, where personality and emotions are formed. 00:02:45.727 --> 00:02:49.167 The way parents behave towards each other not only determines the atmosphere in the house, 00:02:49.167 --> 00:02:52.697 but also the foundation to help children grow up to be more 00:02:52.697 --> 00:02:54.167 loving, understanding and living positively.