WEBVTT 00:00:12.451 --> 00:00:15.911 We would like to greet you, the audience of the 9th hour program. 00:00:19.117 --> 00:00:21.989 Dear friends and colleagues, according to the announcement of health 00:00:21.989 --> 00:00:26.297 organizations, Vietnam is one of the countries with the highest abortion rate in the world. 00:00:26.717 --> 00:00:28.817 This is a story related to many sectors. 00:00:29.457 --> 00:00:33.297 How to prepare children mentally when they are young? 00:00:34.137 --> 00:00:36.297 Are minors taught prevention or not? 00:00:36.797 --> 00:00:41.057 Are parents really paying attention to their children at this important age? 00:00:41.417 --> 00:00:43.037 Van Van, a lot of questions. 00:00:43.797 --> 00:00:47.817 However, whether it is a matter related to psychological or educational issues, 00:00:47.817 --> 00:00:52.713 when the children encounter this, they will first have to bear the 00:00:52.713 --> 00:00:53.937 pain for themselves. 00:00:55.583 --> 00:00:59.706 Many young girls when entering the hospital to have an abortion have 00:00:59.706 --> 00:01:01.423 extremely scared and confused faces, 00:01:02.203 --> 00:01:04.283 and then felt the rope off for the rest of her life. 00:01:05.263 --> 00:01:08.242 At that time, they certainly could not think about far-fetched things but 00:01:08.242 --> 00:01:09.483 just rushed in to play. 00:01:10.283 --> 00:01:15.023 But later, when I had life experiences, I believed that perhaps none 00:01:15.023 --> 00:01:16.603 of them felt calm 00:01:16.603 --> 00:01:21.663 when taking away the human rights that those girls had accidentally or intentionally created. 00:01:21.663 --> 00:01:27.223 And I am sure that many girls will regret their actions as daughters. 00:01:28.463 --> 00:01:33.383 The 9th hour that we bring today is the story of a girl's life. 00:01:34.303 --> 00:01:38.543 We invite you and your friends to follow the story of TU ZOU LAM SE. 00:01:47.845 --> 00:01:51.665 really, now, my heart is in great pain. 00:01:52.805 --> 00:01:57.665 I don't know what I have to do to erase all the wounds and pain in the past. 00:01:58.725 --> 00:02:01.965 Although he tried to do good deeds, tried to extinguish all the incense, 00:02:02.445 --> 00:02:06.469 But the love of my two children that I have deprived me of and become a civil 00:02:06.469 --> 00:02:08.125 servant has always been in my heart. 00:02:08.825 --> 00:02:14.025 The most painful thing is now, when I want to be a mother, I can't. 00:02:15.025 --> 00:02:18.865 The resentment and thick skin of myself grew in my heart. 00:02:19.945 --> 00:02:25.105 Only Nam, my best friend from childhood, understands all these things. 00:02:27.738 --> 00:02:29.698 We grew up in the same neighborhood. 00:02:30.898 --> 00:02:33.138 We are the same age so we have known each other since childhood. 00:02:34.158 --> 00:02:38.078 We studied together from primary to high school and were very compatible. 00:02:39.198 --> 00:02:43.018 The only thing is that the circumstances of my family and Linh's family are too different. 00:02:44.118 --> 00:02:47.038 My family is normal, my parents are civil servants. 00:02:47.478 --> 00:02:49.898 Linh's family has very good economic conditions. 00:02:51.218 --> 00:02:52.918 Although Linh and I are so different, 00:02:53.498 --> 00:02:55.918 but we are still good friends, 00:02:55.918 --> 00:02:57.818 consider each other as brothers. 00:02:59.902 --> 00:03:04.672 Born and raised in a well-off family, I have been used to a prosperous life 00:03:04.672 --> 00:03:06.262 since I was a child. 00:03:06.902 --> 00:03:09.502 My parents have never let me lack anything. 00:03:10.162 --> 00:03:13.342 If I had any friends, I would have liked to be taken by my parents to buy everything. 00:03:14.102 --> 00:03:18.302 Sometimes I just thought I was a princess, so I always tried to achieve 00:03:18.302 --> 00:03:19.802 all the things I liked. 00:03:20.522 --> 00:03:23.682 My parents are rich, but they are not officials. 00:03:24.542 --> 00:03:28.342 My father sold foreign goods, my mother opened a sales agency. 00:03:28.342 --> 00:03:33.382 My mother saves the money she earns and takes care of her children's education. 00:03:35.744 --> 00:03:39.224 While the family was filled with happiness, Linh's father suddenly passed away. 00:03:40.144 --> 00:03:42.544 When everyone was still stunned by the news of that beating, 00:03:42.944 --> 00:03:45.324 when the police suddenly entered Linh's house to investigate. 00:03:46.364 --> 00:03:49.284 Outside, there are also a few people in the black community who are in trouble. 00:03:50.624 --> 00:03:53.317 Things went wrong, Linh's father committed suicide because he was 00:03:53.317 --> 00:03:54.664 involved in a smuggling ring. 00:03:55.184 --> 00:03:58.424 Before that, he had borrowed interest to do big business, 00:03:58.984 --> 00:04:00.584 but unexpectedly, things went south. 00:04:01.824 --> 00:04:05.424 With such a large amount of money that he could not pay, Linh's father chose to commit suicide. 00:04:06.644 --> 00:04:09.704 More unfortunately, Linh's house was also mortgaged. 00:04:10.924 --> 00:04:13.924 At that time, Linh and I were 2nd year students. 00:04:14.404 --> 00:04:16.244 a famous university in Hanoi. 00:04:18.758 --> 00:04:24.538 No more problems, the house is gone, my mother and I have to rent a house and 00:04:24.538 --> 00:04:26.238 fall into a poor situation. 00:04:27.218 --> 00:04:31.013 From a full place to a full place, with money to spend like water, my mother and 00:04:31.013 --> 00:04:32.798 I have to struggle to find a job. 00:04:33.758 --> 00:04:36.078 My mother ran all kinds of relationships to sell. 00:04:36.818 --> 00:04:40.370 Previously, her mother was the one who sat at home to distribute goods, but now 00:04:40.370 --> 00:04:42.738 she has to go to every link to deliver goods. 00:04:42.738 --> 00:04:46.914 My mother teaches a guidance teacher at night, while I get the priority of the 00:04:46.914 --> 00:04:49.698 lightest job, which is at the rice and water house. 00:04:50.618 --> 00:04:54.581 Depending on that, the situation did not last long, the tuition fees for my two 00:04:54.581 --> 00:04:56.958 sisters were larger than the amount of money earned. 00:04:57.778 --> 00:05:02.598 I also started to have to find some job to do, to help my mother and sister. 00:05:05.823 --> 00:05:09.824 Originally a daughter of the miss, and popular with everyone, Linh almost did 00:05:09.824 --> 00:05:11.363 not know what to do. 00:05:12.323 --> 00:05:14.483 Students like us who want to go earn extra money are not difficult. 00:05:15.403 --> 00:05:18.663 We can be marketers or coffee hotpot drivers. 00:05:19.503 --> 00:05:21.263 But Linh could not do those things either. 00:05:22.243 --> 00:05:24.243 There is a lot to do in marketing. 00:05:25.003 --> 00:05:26.223 After a few days, Linh was sick. 00:05:26.783 --> 00:05:30.463 After a while, she applied to work part-time at a clothing store. 00:05:30.463 --> 00:05:34.285 It only lasted a few days, because Linh was already negligent, so thieves came 00:05:34.285 --> 00:05:35.923 in and took away her belongings. 00:05:36.783 --> 00:05:38.943 My friend had to pay and quit her job. 00:05:40.243 --> 00:05:45.158 In the end, although I tried to stop him, Linh still decided to work 00:05:45.158 --> 00:05:46.563 in a karaoke bar. 00:05:50.288 --> 00:05:52.168 I see this as not a bad thing. 00:05:53.008 --> 00:05:54.508 Nam is just too sensitive. 00:05:55.448 --> 00:05:58.308 I was not a hard-working person in the past. 00:05:58.748 --> 00:06:01.108 So the previous jobs were not good for me. 00:06:01.808 --> 00:06:03.348 This job is quite suitable for me. 00:06:04.028 --> 00:06:05.768 The environment here is vibrant and bustling. 00:06:06.288 --> 00:06:08.248 It is true to my interests and personality. 00:06:09.128 --> 00:06:12.088 One day, it is unknown how many types of people flock here. 00:06:12.648 --> 00:06:16.168 Because I have a pretty appearance, I get a lot of attention. 00:06:19.567 --> 00:06:24.187 That is why Linh made money easier than the job she did before. 00:06:25.347 --> 00:06:28.207 I always feel like this job is easy to fall into. 00:06:29.227 --> 00:06:32.767 I told Linh and advised her to work hard to do something else. 00:06:35.507 --> 00:06:38.527 She told me that she had done a few different jobs. 00:06:39.147 --> 00:06:41.747 But no job can be earned as well as this job. 00:06:41.747 --> 00:06:48.551 Linh said that if she was skillful, her salary and bonuses could be up to ten 00:06:48.551 --> 00:06:49.827 million a month. 00:06:52.118 --> 00:06:56.958 To have a good, eye-catching appearance, I have to invest in clothes and hair. 00:06:57.578 --> 00:07:00.758 I also have to speak more skillfully so that customers can love me. 00:07:01.518 --> 00:07:04.964 I have attracted quite a few customers to the restaurant, so the owner really 00:07:04.964 --> 00:07:07.178 loves me, considering me the owner of the restaurant. 00:07:08.078 --> 00:07:09.978 Then I gradually had someone to chase. 00:07:10.718 --> 00:07:13.698 He was a rich man, but a bit old. 00:07:14.438 --> 00:07:15.838 I don't care about that. 00:07:16.138 --> 00:07:18.818 For me, the important thing is that he has money. 00:07:18.818 --> 00:07:22.598 I need money to pay for tuition and cover many expenses. 00:07:23.398 --> 00:07:27.018 He didn't like money when he bought me a bag worth tens of millions of VND, 00:07:27.578 --> 00:07:31.558 invited me to go eat at luxury restaurants, or gave me a lot of money each month. 00:07:33.682 --> 00:07:35.222 I felt like something was not normal. 00:07:36.182 --> 00:07:40.162 No man of that age would willingly spend a large sum of money without getting anything. 00:07:41.242 --> 00:07:45.122 I knew what he needed from Linh and advised my friend. 00:07:45.902 --> 00:07:48.182 But she only criticized me for being old and outdated. 00:07:49.062 --> 00:07:52.122 She said that when they are in love, it is normal. 00:07:53.002 --> 00:07:57.744 Linh said that if she hadn't had a job now, she would have to work in 2K to 00:07:57.744 --> 00:07:59.062 get that amount of money. 00:08:00.262 --> 00:08:02.162 I found this relationship unusual. 00:08:02.162 --> 00:08:05.662 The two of them probably did not show such signs. 00:08:06.762 --> 00:08:10.022 I see them as tycoons and girlfriends. 00:08:12.764 --> 00:08:17.064 So I lost the virginity of a daughter like that. 00:08:18.204 --> 00:08:21.384 I don't see any happiness but real pain. 00:08:22.304 --> 00:08:27.004 Perhaps regret was the most painful feeling I had experienced at that time. 00:08:27.724 --> 00:08:33.344 I wish I hadn't done that when I returned. 00:08:36.743 --> 00:08:41.343 Out of frustration, also because of the hot photos that that man used to control Linh 00:08:41.603 --> 00:08:44.163 So she was forced to follow his orders 00:08:44.683 --> 00:08:47.743 Whenever he calls, Linh has to answer 00:08:48.523 --> 00:08:50.563 In return, Linh has money 00:08:51.343 --> 00:08:54.403 It seems like my friend can't miss that now 00:08:54.923 --> 00:08:57.223 Every time she talks to me, Linh cries 00:08:57.743 --> 00:09:00.803 But to bravely escape that scene, Linh did not dare 00:09:01.323 --> 00:09:03.463 Because she doesn't want to work hard 00:09:06.781 --> 00:09:11.381 Living like that is not too hard, so I just keep wearing it like that. 00:09:12.261 --> 00:09:16.646 And thanks to me, my mother doesn't have to wake up early from the morning shift, 00:09:16.646 --> 00:09:19.661 and my sister doesn't have to be a guardian until night. 00:09:20.561 --> 00:09:22.641 Of course they don't know what I'm doing. 00:09:23.401 --> 00:09:28.725 Only when I was beaten by my tỉnh's wife did they cry and realize that for a long 00:09:28.725 --> 00:09:33.161 time they had lived on money that they never wanted me to earn like that. 00:09:34.221 --> 00:09:35.681 I felt extremely ashamed. 00:09:36.781 --> 00:09:40.001 Looking at myself in the mirror, I no longer recognize myself. 00:09:41.121 --> 00:09:46.241 The bruises on my face and body made me feel ashamed. 00:09:47.261 --> 00:09:51.821 That was also the time I discovered I was 2 months pregnant. 00:09:54.267 --> 00:09:56.827 Linh told me that story in extreme confusion 00:09:59.127 --> 00:10:01.187 But we are close and sympathetic enough 00:10:01.427 --> 00:10:02.707 To share everything with each other 00:10:03.987 --> 00:10:05.027 Linh's rich Mr. 00:10:05.267 --> 00:10:06.307 When she learned she was pregnant 00:10:06.547 --> 00:10:08.347 begged her to give birth to a child for him 00:10:08.867 --> 00:10:12.467 Then he promised to give her the status of a small wife 00:10:15.935 --> 00:10:20.135 Ladies and gentlemen, a young student is surrounded by her family in life. 00:10:21.135 --> 00:10:24.575 An incident happened to her family, she had to make a living on her own. 00:10:25.415 --> 00:10:30.075 She chose a light, high-paid job, which is being a girl in a karaoke room. 00:10:31.075 --> 00:10:36.335 She marries an old man and is beaten up, but worse, she discovers she is pregnant. 00:10:36.975 --> 00:10:41.855 What will happen to her life when she has a burning, hanging linh like that? 00:10:41.855 --> 00:10:47.365 We hope you will follow the next part of the story broadcast on Lao Dong 00:10:47.365 --> 00:10:48.835 TV channel this Sunday.