WEBVTT 00:00:12.637 --> 00:00:16.289 Ladies and gentlemen, there was a wife who was always unjustly 00:00:16.289 --> 00:00:17.617 beaten by her husband. 00:00:18.374 --> 00:00:21.334 There was a husband who turned off his phone when his wife went on a business trip. 00:00:22.234 --> 00:00:24.094 What happens when the wife returns? 00:00:24.994 --> 00:00:27.554 Please follow our story below. 00:00:36.852 --> 00:00:41.457 On the day of my return, I gathered all my courage because I had 00:00:41.457 --> 00:00:42.772 anticipated what might happen. 00:00:43.892 --> 00:00:47.552 I walked into the house and he was already sitting there waiting for me. 00:00:48.592 --> 00:00:51.692 His eyes looked at me like a wild animal. 00:00:52.412 --> 00:00:56.732 Without waiting for me to explain anything, he dragged me back to the room 00:00:56.732 --> 00:00:58.892 in front of the children's astonished eyes. 00:00:59.952 --> 00:01:03.372 Until now, I have always kept my father's behavior from them. 00:01:03.372 --> 00:01:09.356 I want in the eyes of my children, you will always be a good, kind, 00:01:09.356 --> 00:01:10.952 noble and reasonable father. 00:01:11.912 --> 00:01:16.052 Just like me, always hiding his bad qualities from my parents. 00:01:16.992 --> 00:01:20.953 But today, without giving me time to take off my shoes, he dragged 00:01:20.953 --> 00:01:22.172 me past the children. 00:01:23.192 --> 00:01:27.252 Seeing the children's eyes looking at their parents with stunned surprise. 00:01:29.688 --> 00:01:32.188 I can't wait to get back to my room to punish her. 00:01:32.948 --> 00:01:35.368 I have had to hold back my anger these past few days. 00:01:36.228 --> 00:01:37.728 I have to deal with her now. 00:01:38.488 --> 00:01:41.388 I don't have to hide from my children when their mother is a good-for-nothing. 00:01:42.088 --> 00:01:46.268 It is unacceptable for a married woman to go away and turn off her phone. 00:01:47.328 --> 00:01:50.508 She must have done something shady to act like that. 00:01:51.348 --> 00:01:55.728 Just thinking about it makes me feel angry again. 00:01:58.257 --> 00:02:01.887 The children ran after us to our room, but the door slammed 00:02:01.887 --> 00:02:03.097 shut in their faces. 00:02:04.157 --> 00:02:07.097 He locked the door so they couldn't get inside. 00:02:08.077 --> 00:02:13.657 Then as usual, he started insulting me with unacceptable words. 00:02:14.677 --> 00:02:16.937 His anger reached its peak. 00:02:17.837 --> 00:02:20.537 The first time, he beat me up. 00:02:21.157 --> 00:02:23.857 My whole body was purple from his blows. 00:02:24.837 --> 00:02:27.337 I was too tired to react. 00:02:28.257 --> 00:02:30.257 My tears just kept falling. 00:02:31.577 --> 00:02:35.317 I cried not because of physical pain, but more than anything else. 00:02:35.997 --> 00:02:40.965 I cried because at that moment, I realized that no matter how hard I tried 00:02:40.965 --> 00:02:44.277 to build my family, it would all be in vain. 00:02:46.857 --> 00:02:51.337 After the seizure, I left her lying there smiling with bruises. 00:02:52.377 --> 00:02:56.257 I opened the door and stepped out, my two children were still standing silently outside. 00:02:57.297 --> 00:03:00.926 Perhaps they were still shocked when they first saw their 00:03:00.926 --> 00:03:02.377 father beat their mother. 00:03:03.117 --> 00:03:07.192 I saw someone with red eyes, but I didn't care, I didn't bother to say 00:03:07.192 --> 00:03:11.539 anything, I ran down to the living room, grabbed a bottle of wine and drank like 00:03:11.539 --> 00:03:12.897 I had never drunk before. 00:03:12.897 --> 00:03:17.719 The anger inside me still could not be expressed. In my mind I could not get 00:03:17.719 --> 00:03:21.937 rid of the image of my wife talking and laughing flirtatiously with other men. 00:03:22.937 --> 00:03:26.627 Even though it was just my imagination, it still haunted me and 00:03:26.627 --> 00:03:27.857 wouldn't leave me alone. 00:03:31.002 --> 00:03:35.602 The two children ran to me, their eyes looking at me as if they were helpless, 00:03:35.602 --> 00:03:37.902 unable to do anything to help their mother. 00:03:39.082 --> 00:03:43.746 Perhaps, they could not imagine that one day, their mother, full of energy, 00:03:43.746 --> 00:03:48.051 positivity, and a face that always smiled, looking at them lovingly, could 00:03:48.051 --> 00:03:50.562 lie still in one place, feeling stuck. 00:03:51.582 --> 00:03:56.822 At that moment, my whole body was numb, I couldn't be embarrassed anymore. 00:03:56.822 --> 00:04:03.030 At that moment, the two children climbed into bed, lay next to me, hugged me, I 00:04:03.030 --> 00:04:06.522 felt the warmth that they were transferring to me. 00:04:08.222 --> 00:04:12.962 My heart softened, as if being comforted, being sheltered. 00:04:15.198 --> 00:04:18.478 After that day, the kids seemed to be shy and afraid of me. 00:04:19.638 --> 00:04:23.749 I looked at them smiling, picked up food for them and said loving words 00:04:23.749 --> 00:04:25.218 to let them understand that 00:04:25.218 --> 00:04:30.258 I have always loved them and nothing can change that. 00:04:31.458 --> 00:04:34.898 But they still looked at me with a fearful gaze. 00:04:36.458 --> 00:04:38.358 But it's all her fault. 00:04:39.218 --> 00:04:43.178 If she had not been in contact with men, this would never have happened. 00:04:43.178 --> 00:04:48.618 She always acts like she is upright and pure. 00:04:49.938 --> 00:04:52.038 No, there is no way that can happen. 00:04:53.078 --> 00:04:56.558 People say that if you keep a fire near something for too long, it will eventually catch fire. 00:04:57.598 --> 00:04:59.378 I have to stop it before it happens. 00:05:00.418 --> 00:05:02.758 I did it right, absolutely right. 00:05:05.468 --> 00:05:10.048 Well, even at this point, he still doesn't think he's wrong. 00:05:11.268 --> 00:05:15.748 So my sacrifice is to continue living with him for the children, 00:05:16.468 --> 00:05:20.808 for my parents, for outsiders to see that I have a happy family. 00:05:21.528 --> 00:05:23.108 Does it make any sense anymore? 00:05:24.128 --> 00:05:28.328 I hope that behind my patience and endurance 00:05:28.328 --> 00:05:33.648 and it was obvious that I had no other man but him, 00:05:33.648 --> 00:05:38.208 Then one day he will wake up and understand my heart. 00:05:39.328 --> 00:05:45.068 But no, the more I see him tacitly giving himself the right, the right. 00:05:46.168 --> 00:05:50.188 At that time, no matter what I did, he would consider me wrong. 00:05:53.275 --> 00:05:55.875 I was perfectly content holding her in my hand. 00:05:56.915 --> 00:06:00.795 She wouldn't dare leave me, she wouldn't dare see the children alone. 00:06:00.795 --> 00:06:05.075 and dare not become a failure in marriage under the eyes of his mother. 00:06:06.435 --> 00:06:08.095 I understand her personality too well. 00:06:09.135 --> 00:06:15.278 Thinking so, I comforted myself that no matter what happens, she will always 00:06:15.278 --> 00:06:16.695 be my wife. 00:06:19.246 --> 00:06:22.906 But indeed, human endurance really has its limits. 00:06:24.046 --> 00:06:27.286 I used to think that I would live a life like this forever, 00:06:27.926 --> 00:06:29.866 with a heartless and brutal husband. 00:06:31.166 --> 00:06:32.426 Just as he thought. 00:06:33.446 --> 00:06:36.706 I dare not let my child not have a complete family. 00:06:37.526 --> 00:06:41.006 I dare not be the daughter who takes her child back to her parents' house. 00:06:41.866 --> 00:06:46.201 A series of things I dare not do have prevented me from leaving this house 00:06:46.201 --> 00:06:47.646 for the past 10 years. 00:06:47.646 --> 00:06:52.606 But now, looking deep into the eyes of my children, 00:06:53.326 --> 00:06:56.566 I completely lost sight of happiness and peace in them. 00:06:57.806 --> 00:07:01.046 They realized the harsh truth of the family they were living in. 00:07:01.926 --> 00:07:06.526 They saw that their mother was not as happy as she had acted before. 00:07:08.006 --> 00:07:10.286 And I can't pretend anymore, 00:07:10.926 --> 00:07:14.026 when he assaulted me in front of the children. 00:07:15.306 --> 00:07:17.626 I continued to lock myself in a suffocating marriage. 00:07:17.646 --> 00:07:20.266 This one is in exchange for your joy. 00:07:21.206 --> 00:07:23.706 But now, my children are not happy anymore. 00:07:25.446 --> 00:07:28.666 And so, after being beaten by him many times, 00:07:29.686 --> 00:07:33.666 I have decided to take my children out of this house. 00:07:36.095 --> 00:07:39.905 It was unbelievable that one day when I woke up, she and the children were 00:07:39.905 --> 00:07:41.175 no longer by my side. 00:07:42.215 --> 00:07:46.875 I ransacked the room and all her and the children's belongings were gone. 00:07:48.115 --> 00:07:51.295 Oh my god! How could this happen? 00:07:52.175 --> 00:07:55.715 I was sure that she would never dare leave me in this life. 00:07:56.815 --> 00:07:59.795 What is this? Why is this happening? 00:08:01.535 --> 00:08:04.595 For the first time I sat down and sobbed. 00:08:04.595 --> 00:08:07.195 Was I really wrong? 00:08:38.970 --> 00:08:40.710 And separation is natural 00:08:40.710 --> 00:08:42.910 But it is not impossible. 00:08:42.910 --> 00:08:45.010 As his mind dictates 00:08:47.037 --> 00:08:51.197 Ladies and gentlemen, in everyday life, we meet many families who are trying 00:08:51.197 --> 00:08:52.477 to tolerate each other, 00:08:52.897 --> 00:08:56.457 continue to maintain an unstable life and try to appear stable. 00:08:57.317 --> 00:09:01.676 The reason is just for the children, for both sets of parents and 00:09:01.676 --> 00:09:03.017 for outsiders to admire. 00:09:04.157 --> 00:09:08.497 But at some point, when things go beyond each person's tolerance limit, 00:09:09.157 --> 00:09:12.017 all will be like bursting bubbles. 00:09:13.801 --> 00:09:18.081 I wonder how people feel about the woman's choice in this story. 00:09:18.921 --> 00:09:20.721 As for me, I strongly support it. 00:09:21.261 --> 00:09:24.221 Because we need to live first for ourselves and for ourselves. 00:09:24.861 --> 00:09:28.421 Only when you are truly happy can you bring happiness to others. 00:09:29.001 --> 00:09:33.161 Suppose that woman still drowns in that broken marriage, 00:09:33.561 --> 00:09:38.225 then I dare say that for the rest of her life she and her children will never be 00:09:38.225 --> 00:09:39.521 able to reach complete peace. 00:09:40.480 --> 00:09:46.420 And ladies and gentlemen, this is the end of the 9th hour program. 00:09:47.200 --> 00:09:49.340 We would like to say goodbye to you and your friends. 00:09:50.020 --> 00:09:52.920 See you again in the next programs.