WEBVTT 00:00:12.502 --> 00:00:16.842 Ladies and gentlemen, a lesbian wife lives with her husband. They met a 00:00:16.842 --> 00:00:20.182 single woman on social media when they visited their hometown. 00:00:21.918 --> 00:00:24.658 The husband has feelings for a new woman he met. 00:00:25.378 --> 00:00:28.398 What is special is that this relationship is enthusiastically supported by the wife. 00:00:29.178 --> 00:00:31.078 Where will this deceitful relationship go? 00:00:31.638 --> 00:00:34.778 Please continue to follow our story below. 00:00:44.024 --> 00:00:49.329 I never thought that Cupid would knock on my heart at this age and 00:00:49.329 --> 00:00:50.844 in this difficult situation. 00:00:52.184 --> 00:00:53.784 It is clear that the truth is false. 00:00:54.724 --> 00:00:58.664 My wife and I are like two friends bound by a marriage certificate. 00:00:59.444 --> 00:01:01.284 She doesn't love me. 00:01:02.344 --> 00:01:08.144 Now I feel like both she and I love the same woman, Hue. 00:01:08.144 --> 00:01:15.164 This love is not just physical but it is spiritual and lifestyle infatuation. 00:01:16.604 --> 00:01:18.544 Hue really attracted both of us. 00:01:19.184 --> 00:01:23.827 Made Huong and I have to talk seriously about the possibility of divorce and I 00:01:23.827 --> 00:01:25.684 will steal the wedding from Hue. 00:01:27.064 --> 00:01:30.544 Huong said she agreed but she wanted to live together. 00:01:31.344 --> 00:01:34.684 Huong doesn't want to live alone and doesn't want to live without Hue. 00:01:36.064 --> 00:01:38.124 This puts me in an easy position. 00:01:38.144 --> 00:01:41.957 Now crying now laughing, not knowing what to do between new 00:01:41.957 --> 00:01:43.344 love and old love. 00:01:45.027 --> 00:01:49.987 These days, I feel that Hue and my husband's love story has progressed. 00:01:50.967 --> 00:01:56.167 Anyway, my husband is a pretty good man, in the eyes of the world. 00:01:57.007 --> 00:02:01.129 Although my marriage with him was loveless, at least I kept 00:02:01.129 --> 00:02:02.627 my sexuality a secret. 00:02:03.187 --> 00:02:08.418 As for him, after being broken when he realized I couldn't love him, he also 00:02:08.418 --> 00:02:11.207 accepted and lived with me as a friend. 00:02:11.207 --> 00:02:15.587 He and Hue have one thing in common, which is great tolerance. 00:02:16.227 --> 00:02:19.487 Both are kind and considerate of others. 00:02:20.307 --> 00:02:24.677 That's why, if I divorce him, I also understand that it will be very 00:02:24.677 --> 00:02:29.047 difficult for him to completely care about me and choose to live with Hue. 00:02:29.727 --> 00:02:32.487 But I don't want to be pushed out of that life either. 00:02:33.327 --> 00:02:35.967 Why can't we live together as friends? 00:02:36.747 --> 00:02:41.187 Our house is a few hundred meters, has a garden, a swimming pool, and six bedrooms. 00:02:41.767 --> 00:02:45.207 We have a good salary and steady cash flow from business. 00:02:45.587 --> 00:02:49.767 If we don't have children, what's in our way that we can't live together? 00:02:52.493 --> 00:02:56.233 I half-joked in our after-dinner conversation that 00:02:56.233 --> 00:03:01.191 Hey Hue, now Mrs. Huong and Mrs. Sui Anh have abandoned their marriage to marry 00:03:01.191 --> 00:03:03.173 you and take you to America. 00:03:03.693 --> 00:03:06.093 We live together to enjoy our old age. 00:03:08.873 --> 00:03:12.313 Contrary to my and Huong's expectations, Hue just smiled and said 00:03:12.313 --> 00:03:15.373 what a weird thing to say 00:03:16.113 --> 00:03:21.033 This makes me think that maybe Hue is not ready to move forward with this strange relationship. 00:03:21.033 --> 00:03:23.113 Sounds like a shared husband. 00:03:24.073 --> 00:03:27.033 Although Hue also clearly understood our marital status. 00:03:27.033 --> 00:03:31.218 But perhaps with the Vietnamese mindset it will be very difficult to 00:03:31.218 --> 00:03:32.613 accept such a marriage. 00:03:37.010 --> 00:03:40.810 I have been losing sleep for days because of your story. 00:03:41.910 --> 00:03:46.190 Not only did your husband confess his love, but Huong also confessed her love to me. 00:03:47.130 --> 00:03:52.247 She said she loved me with a spiritual love because she admired my thinking 00:03:52.247 --> 00:03:53.710 and way of life. 00:03:54.150 --> 00:03:58.430 She is also past the age of longing to understand someone. 00:03:58.990 --> 00:04:03.502 So if she meets her destiny, she will consider me as her confidant and of 00:04:03.502 --> 00:04:06.210 course she still wants to be by my side. 00:04:07.010 --> 00:04:10.970 Knowing that I planned to go to America, she said she didn't need to ask anyone. 00:04:11.430 --> 00:04:15.707 She and her husband are willing to help me get what I want, have 00:04:15.707 --> 00:04:16.930 the life I desire. 00:04:18.130 --> 00:04:23.470 I feel caught between morality and the feelings of loving and being loved. 00:04:23.630 --> 00:04:28.870 It's a miracle but this love comes in a strange way. 00:04:31.230 --> 00:04:35.550 I'm straight and if I accept this relationship I just feel like 00:04:35.550 --> 00:04:36.990 it's too far away. 00:04:37.010 --> 00:04:39.150 Unacceptable. 00:04:41.894 --> 00:04:44.654 Hue's refusal made me feel so lost. 00:04:45.614 --> 00:04:48.614 I thought I had received the greatest gift from God. 00:04:49.834 --> 00:04:52.034 I asked Hue, why can't you accept me? 00:04:52.794 --> 00:04:55.554 Why can't you live with me and Huong like three friends? 00:04:56.594 --> 00:05:00.833 Hue smiled and said that in any relationship it should only 00:05:00.833 --> 00:05:02.374 be between two people. 00:05:03.314 --> 00:05:04.634 She can't live like that. 00:05:05.294 --> 00:05:09.454 She also feels like she is just an extra person in my relationship with Huong. 00:05:09.454 --> 00:05:15.280 Anyway, Huong and I have had a journey of nearly 40 years together with many 00:05:15.280 --> 00:05:16.834 sweet and bitter things. 00:05:17.974 --> 00:05:21.474 Hue wants to be the one to move on and leave the past behind. 00:05:22.534 --> 00:05:25.834 Of course, Hue will always consider Huong a close friend. 00:05:26.654 --> 00:05:29.534 But living together is difficult for her. 00:05:30.734 --> 00:05:35.279 She said, even though I adopted my ex-in-law's parents, they are my 00:05:35.279 --> 00:05:36.794 in-laws, not my husband. 00:05:37.694 --> 00:05:39.434 Hue wants me to stand in position. 00:05:39.454 --> 00:05:41.914 Stand in her shoes to understand better. 00:05:45.631 --> 00:05:49.691 I don't think Hue can refuse such a good relationship. 00:05:50.811 --> 00:05:51.971 She has nothing to lose. 00:05:52.791 --> 00:05:55.131 She got both love and time. 00:05:55.971 --> 00:05:58.651 I wish everyone in this world had such luck. 00:05:59.531 --> 00:06:03.071 Or maybe I was too open-minded about living together. 00:06:03.831 --> 00:06:06.571 Or maybe it's because I've been alone for so long. 00:06:06.831 --> 00:06:11.343 So when I met the person I loved and cherished, I was too 00:06:11.343 --> 00:06:12.731 hasty, making Hue scared. 00:06:12.731 --> 00:06:16.731 But I also understand that Hue only loves men. 00:06:17.311 --> 00:06:23.031 So for me, if I use reason, this relationship is a double loss. 00:06:24.011 --> 00:06:26.811 Marry your friend, no one does that. 00:06:27.671 --> 00:06:30.011 Everyone hopes happiness will come to them. 00:06:30.631 --> 00:06:31.931 Everyone is afraid of being alone. 00:06:32.731 --> 00:06:36.831 I did that because I wanted both my husband and Hue to understand. 00:06:37.491 --> 00:06:41.011 I always wish the best for the people I cherish. 00:06:42.731 --> 00:06:44.451 I have my greed in there too. 00:06:45.371 --> 00:06:48.531 But people, who is not greedy? 00:06:50.482 --> 00:06:53.962 Hue's refusal suddenly brought our relationship to a dead end. 00:06:54.882 --> 00:07:00.678 And after 3 months of living together, as old friends, confidants, I seriously 00:07:00.678 --> 00:07:02.462 reconsidered this three-way relationship. 00:07:03.462 --> 00:07:08.789 If we lived together properly as 3 friends, my husband and I were still in 00:07:08.789 --> 00:07:13.761 this state, meaning not divorced, Hue was by our side as a friend, then 00:07:13.761 --> 00:07:15.182 everything would seem fine. 00:07:15.182 --> 00:07:20.270 The story became unstable since we developed feelings for Hue and wanted 00:07:20.270 --> 00:07:21.542 to possess her. 00:07:22.522 --> 00:07:26.542 Actually, this reason also stems from Hue's desire to settle in America. 00:07:27.562 --> 00:07:33.702 Just in time, we can help, but not really, I also want to marry Hue. 00:07:34.742 --> 00:07:38.172 What is stuck in this relationship is the social barrier and the 00:07:38.172 --> 00:07:39.602 real feelings in Hue's heart. 00:07:40.442 --> 00:07:42.662 She can tolerate everyone. 00:07:43.382 --> 00:07:45.162 Is it possible to be tolerant out of love? 00:07:45.182 --> 00:07:50.387 She can tolerate us, people who have no reason to live happily like her, people 00:07:50.387 --> 00:07:52.122 who have nothing but money. 00:07:53.729 --> 00:07:57.782 Three months is neither long nor short. The older I get, the more I 00:07:57.782 --> 00:07:59.229 have a sense of time. 00:07:59.989 --> 00:08:05.168 I always feel that my time is limited. Being a person who loves life, I 00:08:05.168 --> 00:08:06.549 cherish every passing minute. 00:08:07.449 --> 00:08:13.471 Going to America, it was not a wish by any means, but it was my dream since I 00:08:13.471 --> 00:08:14.809 was a young girl. 00:08:15.169 --> 00:08:21.449 Living in a rich and civilized country, driving around and exploring cultures. 00:08:21.449 --> 00:08:26.609 Until now, through my own efforts, I have been able to do that without having 00:08:26.609 --> 00:08:28.329 to settle in the US. 00:08:29.269 --> 00:08:34.825 I say this so everyone can understand, getting married and going to America is 00:08:34.825 --> 00:08:36.809 fine or not for me. 00:08:37.629 --> 00:08:42.969 So, if you use marriage as bait for me, I will definitely never accept it. 00:08:44.069 --> 00:08:49.189 I love them for their feelings for me, even though it's a bit perverse. 00:08:49.709 --> 00:08:50.909 I admire you. 00:08:50.909 --> 00:08:56.529 Because in the relationship with her, he was the one who gave a lot, hurt a lot, 00:08:56.529 --> 00:09:00.827 but still chose to be with her, because she had no relatives, her 00:09:00.827 --> 00:09:02.149 relatives had passed away. 00:09:02.149 --> 00:09:08.244 In my relationship with her, I love her like a sister, a lonely and weak friend, 00:09:08.244 --> 00:09:14.340 someone who, if I were by her side, I would lift her spirit and enjoy life 00:09:14.340 --> 00:09:18.149 with her, because life has only so many more stages. 00:09:18.149 --> 00:09:20.729 That's the most distinct thing I can think of. 00:09:20.729 --> 00:09:26.153 As for getting married and living together, to me, it's still a 00:09:26.153 --> 00:09:27.509 very bad thing. 00:09:28.089 --> 00:09:31.229 This, if not taken seriously, will hurt all three of us. 00:09:31.969 --> 00:09:36.129 But we came together, originally because of love. 00:09:38.658 --> 00:09:42.765 When I heard Hue share, I understood that the stubborn people 00:09:42.765 --> 00:09:44.258 were me and Huong. 00:09:45.518 --> 00:09:49.878 We think we are open-minded, but in reality we are self-centered. 00:09:50.998 --> 00:09:55.487 Obviously, after reflecting, we realized that it was because we ourselves were 00:09:55.487 --> 00:09:57.358 losing our motivation to live. 00:09:58.038 --> 00:10:02.118 Because of that, seeing a person full of positive energy like Hue, we feel like 00:10:02.118 --> 00:10:03.478 we have found a lifesaver. 00:10:03.478 --> 00:10:09.504 Therefore, we find every reason, condition and flirt with Hue to get Hue 00:10:09.504 --> 00:10:11.358 to enter our lives. 00:10:12.918 --> 00:10:17.381 We thought we were giving by getting divorced, by living together, by drawing 00:10:17.381 --> 00:10:19.098 a picture of the future. 00:10:20.258 --> 00:10:25.881 But in reality, it stems from the desire to possess a gift from God that we 00:10:25.881 --> 00:10:27.638 thought we could never have. 00:10:29.298 --> 00:10:31.798 Seeing this clearly, I realized, 00:10:31.798 --> 00:10:35.835 I don't have to convince Hue to do anything, but I have to 00:10:35.835 --> 00:10:37.078 change my own thinking. 00:10:37.078 --> 00:10:40.621 know how to create happiness from within, fulfill the state 00:10:40.621 --> 00:10:42.038 of mind from within. 00:10:42.038 --> 00:10:49.032 Only then can Huong and I truly live our lives. 00:10:49.032 --> 00:10:54.902 I must say that I was very disappointed, also because I had expected too much 00:10:54.902 --> 00:10:58.427 about having Hue in my life, in whatever form. 00:10:59.227 --> 00:11:03.908 Since meeting Hue, my heart has been filled with a cool stream of water, 00:11:03.908 --> 00:11:07.587 making it come alive, full of hope and full of dreams. 00:11:08.447 --> 00:11:14.096 But Hue's refusal to accept the vision I had drawn made my feet sink 00:11:14.096 --> 00:11:15.307 into the sand. 00:11:15.307 --> 00:11:21.670 I found myself once again a failure, unable to keep anything for myself 00:11:21.670 --> 00:11:24.607 except money, which would also stay. 00:11:25.327 --> 00:11:31.027 As for me, I turned into ashes. Hue was still as caring as a confidant to me, 00:11:31.027 --> 00:11:35.387 but I saw that she had created invisible white fences with my husband. 00:11:35.947 --> 00:11:40.327 I understand her struggle between loneliness and happiness, between 00:11:40.327 --> 00:11:41.787 possessing and giving. 00:11:42.667 --> 00:11:45.287 In the end, even though she didn't gain consciousness, I still couldn't hold back. 00:11:45.307 --> 00:11:49.327 What she deserves, she still chooses to give. 00:11:50.287 --> 00:11:55.227 And so, I love and appreciate that woman even more. 00:11:56.813 --> 00:11:59.633 In the end, we still divorced after returning to the US. 00:12:00.633 --> 00:12:04.613 Fearlessly, Huong said that the piece of paper had no meaning. 00:12:05.433 --> 00:12:07.113 It is just a meaningless bondage. 00:12:07.853 --> 00:12:12.533 It made Huong and I feel trapped in loneliness and fear of abandonment. 00:12:13.073 --> 00:12:17.780 To the point of not daring to leave each other to search or to fight against 00:12:17.780 --> 00:12:20.133 one's own cowardice to gain happiness for oneself. 00:12:21.433 --> 00:12:26.573 Finally, we came to Zen and decided to adopt a child in Vietnam. 00:12:29.073 --> 00:12:30.293 Sounds weird, right? 00:12:31.093 --> 00:12:32.773 But that was Huong's intention. 00:12:33.673 --> 00:12:38.532 She said that if I found happiness in the future, she would still have a child 00:12:38.532 --> 00:12:40.353 to take care of and love. 00:12:41.153 --> 00:12:43.813 Then I won't feel guilty about her anymore. 00:12:45.313 --> 00:12:48.913 In the end, even though we don't have true love, 00:12:49.573 --> 00:12:52.932 But between me and Huong there always exists a kind of 00:12:52.932 --> 00:12:54.153 gratitude between family members. 00:12:54.853 --> 00:12:56.793 Precious feelings are no different. 00:12:56.813 --> 00:12:59.193 The love of a normal couple. 00:13:00.179 --> 00:13:03.854 Huong still often texts or video calls me to tell me about her journey of 00:13:03.854 --> 00:13:05.079 taking care of her child. 00:13:05.819 --> 00:13:09.579 The boy was chubby and adapted quickly to his new environment. 00:13:10.299 --> 00:13:15.366 Huong said that her husband was her ex-husband and had moved out to the 00:13:15.366 --> 00:13:17.899 house next door to be her neighbor. 00:13:18.679 --> 00:13:21.779 Huong also has an hourly maid to help take care of the children. 00:13:22.459 --> 00:13:26.604 The smile on her lips was wider, it seemed like she had found 00:13:26.604 --> 00:13:27.879 a reason to live. 00:13:27.879 --> 00:13:32.499 It is giving love to a new life starting its life. 00:13:33.479 --> 00:13:38.181 I also didn't ask when Huong and her ex-husband would return to Vietnam, even 00:13:38.181 --> 00:13:41.539 though she and he always invited me to visit America. 00:13:42.399 --> 00:13:46.712 I just smiled to accept that sincere feeling, which is to carry two 00:13:46.712 --> 00:13:48.039 words of understanding fate. 00:13:50.348 --> 00:13:56.672 Yes, an ending without any wedding, but it moved us by the choices of the people 00:13:56.672 --> 00:13:58.648 involved in the unbelievable story. 00:13:59.908 --> 00:14:06.248 In the end, Ms. Hue, Ms. Huong, and Ms. Huong's husband all chose to give and 00:14:06.248 --> 00:14:08.228 treat each other with sincerity. 00:14:09.028 --> 00:14:13.958 It is a real gift that God has given to you in your twilight years in the 00:14:13.958 --> 00:14:15.408 midst of this busy life. 00:14:16.977 --> 00:14:21.748 Find a way out for each person, always be happy and tolerant, because we all do 00:14:21.748 --> 00:14:23.537 not know if tomorrow will come. 00:14:24.097 --> 00:14:28.150 That is the message that the 9th hour editorial board wants to send to 00:14:28.150 --> 00:14:29.597 you through the above story. 00:14:30.443 --> 00:14:35.123 And now, goodbye and see you next week.